Curious about my girlfriend.?

Question

I'm alittle worried that my girlfriend might be pregnant.

I'm a super paranoid guy so it's probobly nothing, but you guys have helped me in the past, so here it goes:

I think she has irregular periods, but last month, she said there was barely any blood, she had a severe mood swing, horrible cramping, and she said she was spotting at a very odd time.

also, we've never had vaginal intercourse, only anal intercourse because I'm so paranoid, I use a condom with spermicide every time, and the lube has spermicide as well. My penis has never entered her vagina, and if it did slip (barely ever), I had a condom on.

We also engage in oral intercourse as well.

This may sound stupid to many of you, but it's rather nerveracking for me, because we've done everything we can to stop this paranoia from happening.

we are both of the 15-17 age range.


thanks!

Answer 1

First, and I am being a parent here, if your that paranoid why are you having sex in the first place. Second, if you don;t know the human body and how it functions then you also should not be having sex.

There is only a slight chance your girlfriend could be pregnant. As long as you keep the condom on and remove it in the bathroom or away from her then she should never get pregnant on annal sex. You can never get pregnant on oral sex. It is an impossibility.

Answer 2

It is normal for a women to have spotting here and there. I have irregular periods. sometimes they come even earlier than anticipated. Two times I had it twice in one month and I wasn't pregnant. Mood swings, that's fine. It is PMS! Also you cannot get pregnant through anal sex only through vaginal intercourse. If you had a condom on through vaginal intercourse you should be ok unless there was a hole in the condom. Most of the time though if there is a hole in a condom it is done purposely. Condoms are very effective against pregnancy. You should be ok. You should continue to use protection and urge her to get birth control also. You guys are very young.

Answer 3

I think you have nothing to worry about. I'd have her take a pregnancy test just in case and it'll both put you both at ease.

Can she go to Planned Parenthood or any free clinics to get on some birth comtrol? At that age I was not into anal sex and even normal sex wasn't all that enjoyable. Does she truly enjoy anal or does she do it just to please you? I hope both of you are performing oral, and not just you receiving. Just some things to think about.

Continue being responsible and using condoms, that's the right thing to do.

Good luck.

Answer 4

You cannot get pregnate from anal sex, at all. All sorts of things can cause periods to be late or irregular, stress, sports and diet are the main culprits. Oh and anal at her age is not healthy, you don't want to stretch her out so bad she can't hold her poop in anymore do you? And you are more likley to get or pass on stds that way. And spermicide will damage the membranes in her anus, its not made to go there. Youre going to damage her hunny. If your that paranoid, you might want to consider waiting untill youre not going to be up all night freaking out.

Answer 5

If you took all the precautions you say you've taken it is highly unlikely that she is pregnant...all women/girls have cramping and the occasional 'weird' period....we are very complex us women you know! You guys have it so easy!! Stop worrying and if her next period doesnt come then have her go to her doctor....If you are 17 and her 15 you'd better be very, very careful....depending on where you live that could be classified as rape/sex with a minor...... stick with the oral for now.....

Answer 6

if you were wearing a condom and had mostly anal intercourse, then most likely, she's not pregnant-that's the least of your worries. you know you're not supposed to put your penis in her vagina after it's been in her anus, right? she can catch a really bad infection- it's called cross contamination. you're introducing bacteria to her vagina that you have "harvested" from her anus. do you think maybe that's why her period has been "odd" lately? there's something for you to ponder on.. AND ,for your girlfriend's sake, i hope you're having oral sex BEFORE anal sex.

Answer 7

First of all, remember this feeling and stop having sex with an underage girl.

Secondly, she should take a pregnancy test right away!

Thirdly, if she is pregnant then it sounds like she must have been with another guy who is not so careful.

If she is pregneant and it is yours, suck it up, be a man and support her. It's not the end of your world. Trust me any woman who only does anal and oral is one you should marry anyways!

Answer 8

It only takes one sperm to fertilize an egg. Despite all your precautions, it it always possible that semen has "somehow" (in other words, unintentionally) gotten into her vagina.

The best way to determine is a pregnancy test - and even the home and doctor's blood tests aren't 100%.

Sounds to me like you gf needs to see her gynecologist - not just for the pregnancy test, but because her periods are irregular. I suggest she make an appointment for a check up.

Best to you both.

Answer 9

Really, I think you guys are ok! Really, REALLY. You have not allowed your sperm anywhere near her...so what could happen? Our periods change now and then for no apparant reason, or there may be something going on with her. Just wait til next month, if she still has problems, she should get to a Dr. otherwise, just keep staying safe!!

Answer 10

I seriously doubt that she's pregnant. If you've never done it vaginally then she can't be pregnant, and even if you did slip, then you had on a condom with spermicide and all of that so there is no way that you could have gotten her pregnant. But if she is, then sweetie, there is no way that it can be by you!