2006-09-06 06:11:31 · 16 answers · asked by Me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah....if I loved him and we have a connection other than through sex. Further, there are always things you can do to improve your sex life...try new positions, places, do different things etc. If you have a good man and a good relationship where you are able to communicate openly with each other, and he treats you like a queen, why throw it away because the sex sucks? Fix the sex and then you'll be as close to perfect as you can get in any relationship. You might leave him, find a man where the sex is ROCKING, but, he's a total dog and you are extremely unhappy. Which would you prefer? I would rather have the former.
2006-09-06 06:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by kingston girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately for me, I'm with a man who (sex sucks), it wasn't always this way, but he is a wonderful man with me and my daughter. He takes care of every need except the sex part.
So yes, I am staying even if sex sucks. Now thats sucks!
2006-09-06 13:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes, this is a toughy.. I think even if it did suck, there is ALWAYS room for improvement... you would just have to "teach" him they way it's done... and if you are in love with someone.. it never sucks and feels like the first time every time :O) I have always wondered how a virgin (since I wasn't) would get married and have sex with her man and then not like it,. she would be screwed LOL.. but honestly I think they can be taught on techniques and such and how you make them feel sexy and such and well it turns each other on... WITH THIS BEING SAID... I would def stay with a man who was AWESOME at it :OP unless of course he sucked as a mate/man/father/husband!
2006-09-06 13:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by nknicolek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to be honest. I love sex and its very important to me. If I was married and sex used to be great and then started going down hill, well, that might be different. Especially if he has a problem. But I've slept with a few guys that seemed really very nice and charming to me but when we got down to doing the nasty, if he stunk, well, I am sure as hell not enrolled whatsoever. sorry but thats me and only me. Its a big disappointment for me. Its selfish, I'll give it that but thats ok b/c for me, that is a pre-requisite. Sure, you could be patient and sort of teach him the ropes but after a few times around if he didnt get better, he's gone. For me, intimacy is another means of expressing myself and if he is not performing that well, I wont either.
2006-09-06 13:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by Uncertainty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as I loved him, I'd stay. You can always teach sex to someone whether they know it or not. Sometimes it's the best way cuz you teach them to do it exactly the way you like it.
2006-09-06 13:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally have in the past because I was in love. However, now that I know what good sex is, HELL NO I would never go through that again! LOL!
2006-09-06 13:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by Encyclopedia Allie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a woman, but you need to educate your man on your needs. Tell him you have to have your needs met before his. I know from experience. I used to be like a jack rabbit, but I've learned to crawl like a tortoise, then become a jack rabbit at the right time.
2006-09-06 13:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I loved him very much, I would try and teach him a fewtrick to make it better. You can always mold a man.
2006-09-06 13:15:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't stay any longer than it would take me to find out that it sucked.
2006-09-06 13:37:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that would suck...if you loved him though it wouldn't be bad right? I'd buy him some movies and say do that.
2006-09-06 13:17:22 · answer #10 · answered by sasha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋