i was over my boyfriends house sunday to get some food. his sister was there with her boyfriend. his name is chris. i kept looking at him thinking i knew him from somewhere. all weekend it bothered me because i couldnt for the life of me figure out who he was. then i thought it was a co-worker of mines husband. then i go over another co workers house, who happens to be her cousin and she has a picture of chris and his family. im like oh my god. that was her husband over my boyfriends house. its eating me but i havent said anything to anybody as it is not my place to tell. i know however that they were trying to work out their marriage problems. we are not friends, just co-workers and we speak daily. its not a big office so everyone gets to know eachother personally. now i wish i hadnt seen a thing.
2006-09-06 06:10:16 · 6 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
this could back fire. stay out of it. I wouldnt tell a soul what i know.we as women will put our man first, and even if you told her she'd believe her man when he denied it, (cause u know he will) I repeat stay far away from this as you can!!!
dont listen to Bernie. Thats why so many women walking roung right now with scars. Cause they wanna tell some chick bout her man.
2006-09-06 08:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh this is tough I think that you should stay out of it. But then again your conscious wont let you. I think that you should let your boyfriend's sister know. I am sure that she doesnt know and then that way she is not the dumb one being naive. Anyway I hope that this goes well if you decide to do it. If you end up telling your sister's boyfriend tell her that you care about her and dont want to see her get hurt. Also that way maybe the man can go back to his wife and work things out there. good luck
2006-09-06 13:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by gm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in a bind. I would say something to the boyfriend and find out what the deal is between the sister and the husband. The next person to talk to would be the sister...kindly inform her that he is a married man. But it still sounds like you're going to be screwed in the end. Your co-worker could be pissed if you tell her or pissed that you didn't tell her and you knew about it. Good luck.
2006-09-06 13:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't say anything and pretend you didn't recognize him. Your co-worker may find out on her own. If you tell her and she forgives him- where does that leave you? Oh yeah, you will be the bearer of bad news and that will make for an uncomfortable work environment. Good Luck!
2006-09-06 13:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by ednolb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of this sweetheart...so many times when a woman tells a friend that her man is cheating on her....the woman blames the friend....again STAY OUT OF THIS...its none of your business
2006-09-06 13:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt touch this one honey!
It could go bad in so many ways. Let his wife catch him, you steer clear
2006-09-06 13:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by wilowdreams 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋