okay.. im 16 and theres this boy that i really like and he really likes me too.. BUT.. he has a girlfriend!!! they were recently on a break and he said that i could meet up with him and go for a few drinks in town but we couldn't get in touch.. then i just found out that he is back with his girlfriend but he says that he doesn't want to be with her.. and he said that i can meet him this weekend for the drink he said we could have last weekend, he is STILL with his girlfriend now (she doesn't know me by the way) and wants to meet up with me and "stuff" and says that nobody will find out.. what should i do????
2006-09-06 06:01:38 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
lol yea i look older for my age so i go to town drinking... hehe :P
2006-09-06 06:06:14 · update #1
and the person who made th comment at the end.. ur honestly gonna tell me that u havnt underage drank b4?!?!?! and u's are gettin the wrong idea about "stuff" i meant kiss not shag!!!! crikey!
2006-09-06 06:18:17 · update #2
I really think that you should just forget about him. If, he really wanted to get with you. Then, he would of found somebody that's knows you so y'all could hook up. He did not. He hooked back up with his girlfriend and telling you that he really doesn't want to be with her. Honey, he's lien through his teeth. If, he didn't want to be with her than he would've hook back up with her. He knew that you wanted him, but he didn't make it no effort to tell you the truth. If, this guy is older than 18 then he will not go out with you. He will do 5 to10. Somebody will find out. Somebody always finds out. You just be careful and don't get your heart broken. Check his back ground first honey. That's what I did with the man that I have now.
2006-09-06 06:29:01 · answer #1 · answered by DeOsher L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly you shoudl grow up some before doing any of this...
1. Underage drinking is illegal - the bar that serves you can loose their license - to go there and drink means you are selfish and only concerned about you.
2. 16 is way too young to be doind=g 'stuff'
3. Only a looser would go out with someone knowing they are involved.
4. You honestly sound like a very bad person.
2006-09-06 06:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, what are you doing drinking? You said you were 16! I hope you meant frappucinos at Starbucks or tropical smoothies at Orange Julius when you wrote, ' drinks'. Drinking alcohol impairs judgment, and this sticky situation is an accident waiting to happen if you catch my drift. Sounds to me like your guy wants to make you a rebound girl. You know, like the fling in between a break-up/make-up ? You deserve someone who has your undivided love and attention, but it seems like he's cheating on you already. This guy is a heart breaker in disguise. Let him make up his mind, and give him some space&time. If my intuitions are correct, he'll be out of the picture and back with his girlfriend at lightning speed. Sorry, but I'm just being honest if you seeking sound advice.
2006-09-06 06:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by Suz E. Home BAKER 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it,he thinks u r nothin but a swet face not worth anything at all.U deserve much better than that,especially if u are only 16 and he wanted 2 give u a drink,y do uu think he wanted u 2 get drunk,hhuh? He wanted 2 have *** with u! ewwwwww!Just leave him alone
2006-09-06 06:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by chocolate tea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to play both sides of the fence. Guys do that alot. Take if from someone who has experience with this. Think of it this way. Once he gets bored or you fall on hard times with you he'll be on to the next girl while he's still with you. You're worth more than that. If a man can't give you his full attention then he's not the one for you. You're giving him your full attention so why can't he return the favor. And secondly I hope going for drinks means sodas or fruit punch....you're still 16.
2006-09-06 06:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's trying to play u because if he was really that interested in u he wouldn't be with another girl while he's trying to get with u. Just leave him alone, i was in that situation and got my heart broken! Your better off without him, and besides there's more guys out there to get with. If you looked good to him, just imagine what the next guy will say. Especially if u look older for your age. GO AHEAD WIT YOUR BAD SELF!!! if you want we can be friends, my e-mail address is tweety4life45@yahoo
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2006-09-07 06:10:24 · answer #6 · answered by ~Swoop~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go its not worth it if he likes you then he should not keep you in the down low that means his still into his gurl his just trying to keep you there as a rebound so that when him and his gurl are on a break you will be his comfort.Trust me been there done that.Have respect for yourself and don't let guys play games with you.Just put yourself in in his gurls shoes would you want your man doing that? I didn't think so be strong hun the right will come along.
2006-09-06 06:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should go and meet him but say i will not keep doing this if you dont break up with your girlfriend and if he does break up with her then you can be together forever but if he doesnt go find another guy and make him jealous and then he will come back to you and bag for you to be his girlfriend and you should say no to see how it felt when he did that to you!!!!!!!!!! Good luck hope it works out for the best!
2006-09-06 08:40:48 · answer #8 · answered by cali13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run, run, run as fast as you can. He is wanting to cheat on his girlfriend with you which says alot about his character to begin with. He is with a girl that he says he doesn't want to be with. And if you do go out with him and he does happen to finally break up with the girl that he is with now all you are doing is telling him that it is o.k. to cheat and asking to be the next person that he does cheat on rather then with. It's a bad situation all around, get away.
2006-09-06 06:12:45 · answer #9 · answered by bluekitty8098 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is willing to go behind his girlfriend's back to meet you than that means he can't be trusted. And he is also a liar because if he really did not want to be with his girlfriend than he would not be with her. If you go, you may just be setting yourself up for hurt feelings later on.
2006-09-06 06:50:34 · answer #10 · answered by S&M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋