when a man ask a girl for time what does it mean? is it forever or do u guys really need time to see if u guys want to be whit someone especially if our girl is pregnant i need some answers please have in mind that im pregnant and im sensitive im going to ask you not to used ugly comments please!
2006-09-06 05:58:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I aked for time; but it was only a week. I just was an idiot and didn't see that she was for real.
2006-09-06 06:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by bigfree_2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy aske for time, there a few things going on in his head. You have to realize that this is a very important moment in his life as well, he needs to get things straightened out in his head and thats why he may be asking you for some time to think about things. It does not necesarily mean that he doesnt want to be with you. We get freaked out with the thought of a girl being pregnant. Its scary for us to you know! I think guys just need a moment or two to figure out what their going to do. Be positive sweetheart!!!
2006-09-06 06:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by natron10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy in question; but the odds-on bet is that it's a stalling tactic -- to find evidence that the baby isn't really his, or for some other conflict he can blow out of proportion so he can leave with a clear conscience, or to run down the clock so you decide to abort the child without him having to ask you to. Sorry to be so blunt, or to have such a low opinion of your man; but it's just my experience.
2006-09-06 06:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be that he is confused about what to do knowing that you are pregnant. He may be afraid of what comes next, the responsibility of a child and he is not feeling free anymore. Give him the time and plan you future without him. When you had enough of his games you will know and want to move on. In the meantime, do the things necessary to protect yourself and your baby.
2006-09-06 06:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by Snuffy Smith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No honey we do not always mean forever its just we are scared to take the leap. I had a daughter by my girlfriend in 2004 and before that I really just wanted to run away. Think about it... us men don't want that responsibility sometimes we feel as though we are not ready. let your man have his time and he will come back even better.
2006-09-06 06:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Means just what we said. In a situation like that usually to get our heads straight so we can think rationally. That's a major thing to be popped on some one's perverbial lap-- whether we helped with it or not.
2006-09-06 06:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by Crossroads Keeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he has to say that than move on he must not love u because if u love some one u don't say u need time to think. there is no thinking fine some one Else fine a man that will love u and u will .i hope it all works out for u.best of luck.
2006-09-06 06:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by scottyirish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It ready depends on the kind of person you are in relation with. All five fingers are never of the same size and every kitchen does not taste the same again and again.
2006-09-06 06:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by ADCHOP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all dont be afraid , if he has asked for time you give him a certain time limit and even then if he cant decide DUMP him for Good You are going to be a Great mother I know it . Just be Strong .
2006-09-06 06:01:41 · answer #9 · answered by ali_teror 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats with the americans english? I cant understand crap from what half of you say.
Anyways......he wants to think about what he is doing...should he get involved? Does he want to raise a kid? Its pretty tough knowing hes gonna be a father. Give him time to sort it through.
2006-09-06 06:02:39 · answer #10 · answered by julean33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have thought an unplanned, teenage pregnancy would be enough to knock some quick sense into you, but alas, I see it hasn't. Still sensitive? Still so naive? Still holding out hope that your loser boyfriend is going to care about your child that his loser girlfriend (you) spawned? Get real VERY QUICKLY dear!
2006-09-06 06:03:29 · answer #11 · answered by surfinthedesert 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋