Neither my fiancee or I want kids. I don't see that why that is such a problem. First off, I would rather drink a gallon of clorox then be pregnant and give birth ( yuck), kids are really annoying, messy, loud, being a stay at home mom is the most boring and unfufilling job I can think of, good for women without brains and high education. If I was a housewife I would feel completely worthless. I recently went to my sister's baby shower and all of her friends were asking me when I was going to have a baby, when I told them that I have absolutly no maternal instinct, they looked at me like I was completely weird. Why should we overpopulate the world more with kids that I don't want?
2006-09-06 05:57:41 · 11 answers · asked by mcdholiday 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Everyone is allowed to do exactly what they want to do. This is the 21st century and we live in America.
2006-09-06 15:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by Rose 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you don't want kids you shouldn't have them. But insulting the people who do choose to have children and take care of them is way over the line.
And weather or not you think being a stay at home mom is boring or not it pretty much the most fulfilling thing in the world for millions of women.
So maybe if you started giving your reasons for not having children without bashing those of us who do, people would be a little more open to what you have to say. I would have thought all your brains and high education would have taught you that by now.
2006-09-06 14:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by mayasmom1204 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Isn't this how it's always been? Women get married and have children and most young ladies growing up embrace that thought. I'm with you though; I've no desire for children and also have no maternal instincts. Good for you for recognizing these things about yourself and not having a child just because it's "expected".
We're all entitled to the right to have or not have kids and shame on everyone else for looking at you like you have 3 heads for not wanting kids. There are more women out there who don't want kids than you might think, but since we're the minority, we tend to just keep to ourselves.
2006-09-06 13:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well,I was on your side until you stated that a stay at home mom had no brains or a high education.That is not a fair statement,except in your opinion.I chose to be a stay at home mom,I am neither dumb or without education.I have a nursing degree.It was what I chose to do and I think my child is better for that decision.It was neither boring or unfullfilling to me.
After looking back at all your other questions,I see this appears to be a bogus question.How can you be 16 years old and working as a divorce attorney?Yes,do us all a favor and don't ever think of having any kids,we have enough idiots in the world.
2006-09-06 13:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by stellablue1959 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋
First of all, good for you for realizing that. Most people don't realize it until they have kids and then it's too late.
If someone doesn't want kids, they don't want kids.. I don't see a problem with it at all. I think the only reason other people might think something of it is because that's what women are "supposto" do.. and if you're not doing it... then there's something wrong with you.
2006-09-06 13:02:59 · answer #5 · answered by Imani 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe your parents should have aboarded you and that would have helped with the over population of the world. One less arrogant, ignorant, selfish individual to deal with. I hope you never do have kids you remind me of the story about Joan Crawford in "mommy dearest". Youd probably be a child abuser and we defenitly dont need that!!! You seem to have no education, what kind of so-called attorney are you? One I defenitly would never hire ecspeacialy because of your nast comments about children, You must defenitly be the anti-christ!!!! Shame on you not having kids is ones decision but to make the comments you do are just plain rude, I have a question for you anyways, how does a 16 year old who lives with there granparents become a lawyer and have a fiance, I beleive when I was 16 I was a junior in highschool, Dumb a.$.$
2006-09-06 13:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by landscaperschick73 3 · 3⤊ 4⤋
Sometimes it's better that some people not reproduce.
Honestly from your questions you seem like a shallow and materialistic person. I can't stand people like you. I hope my kid throws cherrios into your weave next time we sit next to your table at Applebees. *SNAP*
2006-09-06 23:26:39 · answer #7 · answered by eddysmomma 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with you and applaud you for your decision. Not everyone wants to have kids--it is a matter of personal choice.
2006-09-06 13:01:28 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to admit that your view is not normal, and therefore by default it is wierd.
But you should be proud that you are strong enough to know what you want and to not let "normal" people pressure you into doing something you do not want to do.
You sound like you have your sh it together.
2006-09-06 13:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I agree YOU should not have kids.
2006-09-06 13:21:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋