i m a grl of age 15. once my classmate told me that she often had sex with a girl of our own clas. i tried to make her undrstnd that it was not good and was harmful so she said that none can get prgnant n that too they both loved it. i wanna ask that isnt is harmful 4 u and that during pregnancy can it lead t complications. also tel som methods to make her understand plz help. i wanna help her.
2006-09-06 05:49:38 · 16 answers · asked by rusty 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I am confused. This girl is having sex with another girl?? Is that what you are saying? No, she cannot get pregnant from that and it is not dangerous, well any more so than sex with a man. She should be careful and safe to avoid STDs.
2006-09-06 05:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by cyndi71mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's having sex with a girl she can't get pregnant. Girls can't procreate by themselves. That's why we have those things called men.
As far as harmful, the only harm she may be causing herself is exposure to STD's. So she needs to be a bit more safe in that aspect. And if she is pregnant, she's had sex with a boy, and sex with a girl isn't going to hurt a baby any more than having sex with a boy will. Other than STD's, I'm sure she'll be okay.
2006-09-06 05:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by jenpeden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL
You should be concentrating on your school work so you can learn how to spell and write a grammatically complete sentence. Leave your friend to worry about her own actions.
It's not harmful for her physically (emotional issues of children having sexual relations is another topic), and it's a personal choice as to whether it's "wrong" or not. It won't lead to any complications during any pregnancy -- although where this friend of yours is going to get pregnant when she's not having sexual relations with a guy is another story!
2006-09-06 05:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not think it is harmful to them, just trying out new things. They may just get over it soon. I do not understand it, but I think you are making it out to be too much. If they like it then they will have to adjust their lives to it. As far as harmful you did not really say what they are doing that could be harmful. Life is full of choice's and options, and they are just making their own now. Good luck
2006-09-06 05:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by wmkinger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, kiddo...the notion that lesbian sex can be harmful is a bunch of B.S. spread by uptight, conservative bible-thumpers and has been debunked since the 50's.
The bigger concern I have as a parent is that sexual relations -- either homosexual or heterosexual -- can create all sorts of emotional complications and bring out all sorts of feelings that, as teenagers, you all probably don't have the experience or emotional maturity to deal with in a healthy way. (Although in fairness, there are plenty of adults do don't deal with sexual relationships well, either.) But you need to appreciate that, contrary to what you may have been taught by your parents or your pastor, homosexuality is not a mental illness that your friend needs therapy for, nor an "illness" that she needs to be "cured" of, nor a "sin" that she needs to be "saved" from....
2006-09-06 05:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can drag the horse to the pond but can not make it drink the water. Sex is a fruit if once it is tasted and you enjoy the taste then you will try and find the reason to have or let me say enjoy it every now and then.
2006-09-06 05:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are good friends please try not to judge or interfere because all u will do is lose your friend over the topic.Literature fr a Dr office would be good to walk in and collect for her..giving it to her is one thing..discussing it in a negative or judgmental voice would be damaging.It is her life,and having sex at 15 is NOT TOO MATURE in the first pl.Watch and learn from those along the way.
2006-09-06 05:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by adnohr56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure what you are asking are you saying theres a girl who is already pregnant and shes having sex with anther girl and you want to know if this is harmful to her pregnancy?
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2016-11-25 00:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by keeven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really as dumb as you sound, you don't need to be giving advice to ANYbody!
PS...there is nothing wrong with 2 girls having sex! No harm could come from it. Don't be so foolish.
2006-09-06 05:53:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋