well im 16 year old FEMALE i have a good honest boyfriend everything in my life is just great but one thing last month a very very cute or u can say hot japanese girl shifted in my class n i cant help but feel really extreamly attracted to her not really sexually but lovingly i feel the urge to hug her n other stuff am i gonna be a lesbian ? am i cheating my boyfriend i mean cmon shes only a girl and how can i try not to be a lesbian coz i dont want to but she feels like piece of heaven to me whenever i see her blood rushes in my headim good loking so will she like me? cuz i dont wanna upset her HELP
2006-09-06 05:49:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Comics & Animation
when i was in high school i was attracted to one of my female teachers, similar to what you are describing. it doesn't mean you are going to be a lesbian, not that there is anything wrong with being a lesbian. befriend her, go from there. chances are it's just one of those things... people tend to go through that questioning in high school. i still visit the teacher when i can - i am hetero, happily married for 2 years with a 1 year old beautiful baby boy.
hope that helped... if you want a little more, feel free to email me. i have had a lot of friends who were homosexual, a few who thought they may be bi, and one who even had the hots for me, but is straight now. it's just a questioning phase, you'll find yourself in time.
2006-09-06 09:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by Jenessa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing abnormal about seeing the beauty in another woman. You obviously admire her which is also respectable and normal behavior. Even if you are attracted to her, that does not make you a lesbian. Morever, there is nothing wrong with being a lesbian either. Maybe you just have a girl crush on her. It happens.
2006-09-06 06:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
just because you like a girl doesent make you an automatic lesbian.
From what I can tell her friendship ignited a sort of bosom buddy/maternal instinct in you. Maybe she just has a good personality and is a generally good person to be around. If youre starting to feel sexually charged towards her why dont you discuss it with her and see if how she takes it. Afterall, she should be your friend no matter what.
2006-09-06 06:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by wishwash06 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think maybe you are intrigued by her unique beauty. You don't have to be gay to find someone attractive. I have often done a double take at a beautiful woman. Since she is new, why don't you start by sayoing hi and introduce yourself, its not that hard. Its not like she is a god or something. And there is nothing wrong with telling anyone that they are beautiful or pretty. She would probably welcome a new friend at a new school. Treat her like you would any other friend. And remember to be yourself. peace.
2006-09-06 05:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by Poetess_4U 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way about Asian Girls. I was over there and felt quite a few of them. They are hot and good lovers. But I'm a guy and you're a lesbian
2006-09-06 05:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by Cal 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look, just because your attracted to her doesn't mean your a lesbian. during the teenage and even college years, our sexuality is very unstable. And no, your not cheating boyfriend. Your only cheating when your actually doing soemthing bad. THiking it isn't really cheating, i think. I hope this helps.
2006-09-06 05:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by happy_go_lucky 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hahaha i like how you posted this in the comics and animation....i think better help would've came from the friends & relationship section....but good luck....i don't think your going lesbian...maybe she has that effect on all girls/ people.... it's not nice to say she is ruining your life... i mean she didn't purposely do this to you.
2006-09-06 13:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just talk to her? My sister had a Japanese girl in her class when she was in 8th Grade before and they got along well.
2006-09-06 06:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok maybe girls it not lesbian to hugs others girls just say u like her as a friends then get to know her
2006-09-06 09:53:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is this question in the comics and animation section?
2006-09-06 11:59:40 · answer #10 · answered by sam 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋