What are good ways to get more (innocently) physical with my best (girl) friend. We are both 15. Please give me all your ideas.
Btw, I'm not trying to get her into bed, I just want her to know I love her and care about her and she can trust me.
2006-09-06 05:45:16 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Definitely hold her hand if she'll let you. Nudge her occasionally. Touch her arm when you're saying something you really mean.
Don't get too touchy though because it might put her off.
2006-09-06 05:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by gromitski 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how physical you wanna get really. But holding hands, giving her hugs, stuff like that never hurts between friends. I have a whole bunch of really close friends that are girls and we're pretty physical with each other, and in the most innocent way. Sometimes when there's no more chairs to sit on at a party or something one will sit on my lap, or while at a bonfire we'll cuddle in a blanket to keep warm. Same stuff I'd do with my sister, cuz that's what they're like to me just more sisters. ^_^ Hope this helped ya!
2006-09-06 05:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by Stefan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help her on with her sweater or coat. Brush back a strand of hair that blows onto her face with your fingers. Hold her hand (in public if this doesn't embarrass her, in private otherwise). When I was asked at 15 if my boyfriend could kiss me I said no, but only because I had never been kissed and I was very scared so don't go too fast with that. You could start by kissing her hand while you're holding it. Put your arm around the back of her seat at the movies if that's OK with her. The pace should really be set by her but you should let her know, up front, that your intentions are honorable, so she won't be frightened. This is a very sweet way to build intimacy in a relationship without the fear or threat that it will lead to sex. You're too young for that and I'm glad you know it.
Continental Bonnie
2006-09-06 06:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by BONNIE M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 15... how physical do you want to be??
You mean kissing and holding hands right? Those are the most innocent physical things that I can think of..
Take her to a movie ( i mean, have our parents drive you) and gently grab her hand while you are watching it. Lace your fingers between hers (no cupped hand holding) but make sure your hands aren't too sweaty.
Then, before when you are walking out of the theatre or walking her up to her house when you take her home, tell her you had a good time and you want to go out again sometime and give her a little peck on the lips...maybe along with a hug.
Good luck. Don't rush it and don't have sex!
2006-09-06 05:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by sour_apple 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Touching in the shoulder or hand work well for me. See how she responds. Or even better: try mimicking her physical attitude towards you. Empathy is a good way to show you care.
2006-09-06 05:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by Atreyu G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about being physical with her. Try these things instead.
Hold her hand. Listen to her. Buy her inexpensive things (if you can afford it). Make her a CD with songs that remind you of her. Give her your favorite....whatever it may be. Good luck!
2006-09-06 05:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by gel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't have to be physical to do that dude. Why not cut n paste the last sentence of your question onto a nice card and give that to her...guaranteed.
2006-09-06 05:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by kenfitameen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way??....Show her you can wait with the physical stuff. You both need to be older.
2006-09-06 06:00:32 · answer #8 · answered by missourim43 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has many ways to share but physically Dosen't have that much role to it...
just be there for her at all times...
time will tell she'll get the picture....
as long as your intentions are pure and true it'll pay off in the end...
2006-09-06 05:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by SEDATED 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she loves u as much as u love her, u should be able to put ur arm around her wen ur w/ other people, and u can hug her in public and kiss in public, (if u guys r up to that). ur relationship dusnt evn hav to be physical. if u constantly tell her u love her and u wanna be with her, then i bet shed love that 2.
2006-09-06 05:48:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋