what's better ?
2006-09-06 04:51:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
marrying itself means = nothing better
2006-09-06 04:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 30
2006-09-06 11:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by classiclady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I've done both and the marrying after 30 has worked out much better. I think it is all up to the individual and what they want out of their life. After 30 has the advantage in that you've given yourself time to experience life and figure out a lot of things. Early has the advantage that in some ways dealing with kids is easier when your younger.
2006-09-06 11:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 30 when I got married....other than being an old man chasing babies, when you don't have the energy like you had when you was 20. The marriage is usually more stable and lasts longer however. I'm 41 and still married to the same lady.
2006-09-06 11:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sincerely believe its all based on how mature the people involved are.
I was married once at the age of 23 (my spouse was 21). He was stupid and immature, and after 5 years of his cheating abusive crap I left and got a divorce.
I remarried at the age of 35 and have a very good marriage now with a very emotionally mature man who's caring, considerate and thoughtful.
Then I know a couple who've been married since they were both 19, and they are dedicated and smart and loving toward one another and VERY mature in the ways that count when it comes to a relationship.
2006-09-06 11:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One good thing about being married before is all that energy many 20-somethings use to stay at clubs all night (like I did) can be used to stay awake with the baby(ies). When you get older it's not as easy.
2006-09-06 11:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by Rossonero NorCal SFECU 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you are both ready .. financially and as well mature enough to handle it.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-06 11:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definitely not get married before 30, live your life go on holiday with your mates, you only have one life plenty time to get serious with someone.
2006-09-06 12:09:33 · answer #8 · answered by cat-titude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 25 ONLY IF ITS THE RIGHT PERSON
2006-09-06 12:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by ray4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
married at age 8, and together for about 6 years now it seems to be wooking
2006-09-06 11:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by the jjr"S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋