It hurts after my husband and I have sex. I almost feel swollen...is this normal? I have gone to the doctor several times and I'm healthy as can be. And lube does not help, it burns. Any suggestions???? Please help!
2006-09-06 04:47:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I have gone to the ob-gyn. I'm fine. And my husband and I have extensive foreplay and I really enjoy it....I just don't know why it hurts so much afterwards.
I'm 24, yes I was a virgin before my husband but that was a few years ago...to answer your questions.
2006-09-06 05:03:25 · update #1
OK i had that problem and i had cervical cancer but since you went to the ob and you checked out fine hum.... lube burns me too. but maybe your having sex to much or to rough for your body. try going a week with out have vaginal intercourse. you can still have oral or give him oral... just give your vagina a break. see if that helps... or ask your ob what you can do...myabe its from his c u m sometimes a mans c u m can irritate our insides. Im sorry i hope this helps i know its horrible to have this problem :)
2006-09-06 05:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by TEMPTRESS 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Has this only happened with your husband and have you had intercourse before your husband with no problems? Is your husband wearing a condom? If so you could have a latex allergy. And the lubricant with the latex may make it worse. Is this something that just recently started or has always been this way? You might try checking with another doctor because a doctor who says your are healthy but doesn't give you any reasons that can be causing your problem is not a good doctor. If you tell the doctor you are having pain during intercourse they need to investigate as to why, not just say your normal because unfortunately it's not normal. Don't let them use that as excuse to not help you with your dilemna. Good luck and post to let us know if you get it resolved!
2006-09-06 05:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by renegadescwgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happens with me when my husband and I have sex. I am not sure why, but it seems to happen most often if I get too dry. Lubrication hurts me as well. The burning could be from being raw. I really have no suggestions except for try to stay wet. Sorry.
2006-09-06 05:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by 00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Usually lubrication gets less with age, but sounds like that is the problem. What kind of lube have you used? I've heard of something called "platinum", but haven't used it. How long has this been a problem? Were you a virgin when you married?
2006-09-06 04:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by aggie babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be a yeast infection or it could be something internally.. could be anything! Its not right that its hurting even with lube. Obviously the doctors over looked something. Instead of going to your family doctor go to a gynacologist. They know what going on down there alot better that a family doctor. Hope you get better!
2006-09-06 04:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by bumblebeetuna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have just started off with being sexually active it could happen, ...since you have ruled infection, possibly you aren't totally ready when it happens causing the hurt..relax...don't think of anything else...and if possible see if you and your husband can get you more into the mood with some extended foreplay...hope this helps
2006-09-06 04:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by freedom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not a women but to have a good sex first relax and let your partner foreplay and arouse you, ask him to little tease you or bite you nipple little bit and let him kiss on your neck and let the soft music be at the background. good luck and enjoy. make sure that you have sufficient lube in the vagina.
2006-09-06 05:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by gov 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal if you are kind of tight naturally. When you go for your gyno exam, does that hurt? Some women are smaller and depending on your partner that may make is worse b/c of their size. Not sure what you can do about it though unfortunatly.
2006-09-06 05:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by miss_jennifer79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rub your arm for half an hour. It's going to hurt and swell, and possibly give your a friction burn. Ok, now experiement 2. Slap your arm for half an hour. It's going to hurt and swell. That's basically what's going on.
2006-09-06 04:56:26 · answer #9 · answered by sovereign_carrie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try lubricating first.
2006-09-06 04:51:32 · answer #10 · answered by jessiekatsopolous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋