I was at the mall the other day, and a friend of mine (female) saw a miniskirt in store that she "just simply had to try on". Well, us two guys waited outside the dressing room, but when she came out; the miniskirt had holes in revealing places. We turned away and walked out of the store, and I think that hurt her feelings, but we just had to wait outside. She did not say anything for the rest of the time we hung out, and she has not talked to us since then. The miniskirt showed underwear through the hole, and we are both respectable guys. What should we say her because we are clueless as to how to approach this? And since when did revealing clothing like that come into style???
2006-09-06 04:21:49 · 8 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't know when that came into style. In fact, I don't even think that IS in style.
(shudder) Hope this isn't going to be a trend.
2006-09-06 04:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by ashcatash 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
These clothes have been in style for a couple of years. Males wear those pants with the crotch hanging to the knees showing their underwear and I have seen a couple that had no underwear on!! Then there are the low riders pants that females are wearing. I think it's distasteful to wear these pants and show you underwear! For one thing it is called 'underwear' and Victoria's Secret isn't called 'secret' for nothing. One's underthings are suppose to be personal and thus a 'secret', not for everyone to know. I would suggest telling your friend this.
2006-09-06 04:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell her how you felt when she wore that and why you went out of there - you obviously showed some respect to her by leaving. but how is she supposed to figure out why you guys walked out of there, she was probably waiting for you inside so she could get your opinion.
you shouldve looked at it and said something like "it suits a dirty hoe wiv no self respect and it attracts wrong attention. since your none of thse try something else that makes you look sexy and beautiful.
2006-09-06 04:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was wondering the same thing. It's all about validation, knowing that some one else wants to see what we have to offer. It's not healthy or right, but it IS rampant. You did the right thing. You rock, dude!
2006-09-06 04:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by ordinaryfemale 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead ask her to buy a Top like that too & try to wear it without Bra???
Only then she will understand that why u said her so?
2006-09-06 04:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by Beware_I'm_Here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
different folks for different strokes. i dont like it but hey its the teen age fade...i hope it stop cause there are ppl who need clothes and here they are putting holes in them how stupid is this fade?
2006-09-06 04:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend wants to dress like a cheap slut, then just let her do it
2006-09-06 04:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by Plum 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
looks like your friend has her career already mapped out..."Pole Dancer"!!
2006-09-06 04:24:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋