My ex friend and I got into a huge fight, now we aren't friends. I just try to forget about her and never say bad things, cause wat goes around comes around. But I keep finding out, like daily that shes calling me b**** and all those names. What should I do to get her off my back without fighting more?
2006-09-06 04:02:58 · 30 answers · asked by renthead 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stop talking to her. Responding to it or reacting to it (letting it hurt your feelings) will only fuel her need to say negative things. Try saying really nice things about her, she'll wonder what you're up to and concentrate on waiting for you to stab her in the back and stop saying things at all. Kill em with kindness!! (You think I'm kidding, but it works!!!)
2006-09-06 04:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by ordinaryfemale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not those names then it should not bother you..... Names are just that names.... you have to learn how to ignore immature people.... She is not your friend and probably never was... this is some stupid kid stuff.... she needs to grow up... you have to learn how to ignore people.... My mother always told me that you kill someone with kindness... You never stoop to there level and give back what they dish out because then you are no better than they are... so my advice to you will be ignore her but don't be mean about it.... tell her that she can call you all the names in the book but that will not justify what she did to you in your friendship...
2006-09-06 04:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by Shonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right. What goes around, comes around.
Let it go.
If she is bothering you badly enough, you can get a lawyer to shut her up.
A few years ago, a local woman saw me in a restaurant with my daughter, and told everybody in town that I was cheating on my wife. Nobody except my (now ex) wife believed her, because she had such a bad reputation for telling wild stories.
2006-09-06 04:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is touchy it depends on how pissed off she can make you at any one point and time i mean do you want to hurt her or just get her to leave you alone you should get her fired from her job try to ruin her life that would work if she drives a small car get your buddies pick it up turn it sideways in an alley one night lol good luck getting it out without a couple guys lol its always a good one oh and if you having tried being a dick - head that would maybe work
2006-09-06 04:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will learn as you go through life that this kind of thing happens and the best way to deal with it is to just ignor them and don't let your emotions control the situation. She is only making herself look bad by her actions. If anyone believes her then you don't need them in your life either.
2006-09-06 04:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by kekeke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that one song by user-friendly plan from their first cd. i think of that's referred to as thank you. that's approximately backstabbing friends. its a great great song. and additionally, there is that Evanescence song from their 1st cd Fallen, I cant remember the song call even with the undeniable fact that.
2016-09-30 09:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say to yourself I don't give a damn 3 times every time it bothers you and pretty soon you will believe it. Karma is the Mother of all *itches so, shame on her. She will wise up soon. Shes probably doing what shes accusing u of.
2006-09-06 04:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by someones sister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her! Who cares if you get called names! your true friends know who you are and if anyone is going to judge you by what someone else says you don't need them nor need to get to know them that's not a good friend! and you want good friends not just a high number trust me had both!
or just try to make up with her! state the problem that you both had and just say you know what your right bla bla bla... <-- even if she isn't right then she will feel bad and want to be your friend agian!
i personaly just would ignore her tho it will pass! just don't let what she says get to you or she will win!
And y our the winner right! :)
Mad luv
2006-09-06 04:10:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to move on. Obviously someone is feeding you information and the only reason to this is to stir things up. You need to get some new friends and move on.
2006-09-06 04:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all she's doing is calling you names just let it go. If she sees that it bothers you she'll keep doing it. Best thing to do is let her see you being happy & not needing her as your friend anymore.
2006-09-06 04:06:03 · answer #10 · answered by Tender Hearted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋