never grow up as fast as women do? My boyfriend of 2 years is 27 and he spends more time with his friends and playin poker online then he does me.. I just don't understand it.
2006-09-06 04:02:51 · 14 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Women don't grow up faster,they mature faster than men.Also a 18 year old female is considered an adult while men are not until their 21 in some cases.In your case your boyfriend may be taking you for granted if he's spending more time with his friends than being with you.You should talk with him and explain how you feel about how he spends his time and that you need more time with him.I hope this helps and wish you the best of luck.
2006-09-06 04:14:52 · answer #1 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true that women are in general more mature than men of the same age, this is why traditionally women date men older than themselfs. As to not spending enough time with you, make an effort to do more things together, try to get to know his friends, or try doing something neither of you have never tried before, life is all about new experiences.
2006-09-06 11:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by Paul H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is does he spend enough time with you?? If he doesn't then he just is not that into YOU...it might be time to move on. Ask yourself....do you see him once a week? Do you have fun when you do see him?? Make yourself unavailable when he call, be busy make him work for it....he has to see you as something of value. Don't make things too easy for him...but when you do see him knock his sock off by looking GREAT.
I am not saying that you two should be joined at the hip...far from it....in a relationship you should have your own interests...and the BF should have his own too....
Good Luck, it's hard dating...remember you are a rare and special woman and don't let them forget it.
2006-09-06 11:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by Lovely B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is usually true for middle to late teens.
However with the easy life kids have today growing up, both men and women don't mature until they are about 35 according to the latest findings.
Lucky them, I took care of my own living since I was 15. Didn't have the luxury of goofing off until near middle age.
2006-09-06 11:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We just need more space than you guys need; we love you and appreciate you, but just too much together time can start to get a little cramped. Let him have fun with his boys and his online poker; if you want to be more involved, try playing poker with him (online), maybe you guys will start spending more time together and find something you both enjoy.
2006-09-06 11:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Both sexes need alone time, it makes the heart grow fonder.
You can always do as done to, and try ignoring him a little, see if he comes around. Don;t act mad about it, just get your own hobby, it's good for the soul.
2006-09-06 11:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by A 37 year old male 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men never grow up....period! If I had a bf like that, I'm afraid I'd dump him for one who was more interested in ME ! You're wasting your time with this "baby". Godloveya.
2006-09-06 11:06:23 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it's different with every of them. my bf is not like this no matter that he is much younger but my cousin is even older then ur men but he's the same as him.
2006-09-06 11:10:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men never grow up, you may just have yourself one.
2006-09-06 11:05:26 · answer #9 · answered by live2ride 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes it's true.Boys gain maturity much later.
2006-09-06 11:10:00 · answer #10 · answered by aditi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋