i dont know why we do this so much, like is it normal?! or what..and in person we get along just fine with each other..its mostly when we're on the phone..someone please help meeeeee!!!! i need to know why we do this.thanks.
2006-09-06 03:12:25 · 11 answers · asked by connie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you guys are so much alike yet you have different veiws and opinions...it happens...nothing to worry about there stupid little petty fights...me and my boyfriend do it all the time..and only when we are apart...some times i start the fight cause imjealous over whos hes with but will never admit it..and he does the samething...but when we are together..we dont have anything to fight about..we just want to spend time together! i dont think its something to worry about then again im not in ur relationship and id know exactly wat ur fighting about but you said it your self....its petty things..so why dont you just try and let some of the fights go...its just petty **** right?
2006-09-06 03:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
An argument occurs when two individuals try to get the other to accept their opinion on a topic. A discussion takes place when two individuals express their own opinions as another point of view of the same topic. If you and your boyfriend tries to get each other to accept the other's opinion you will always be arguing. You don't have to accept his opinion if you don't agree, with it, and the same goes for him, but you can avoid an argument by saying something like "That's another way of looking at it, I've never thought of it that way." And if you start doing that every time you feel an argument brewing, maybe he will start to take notice and realize you are trying to avoid arguing. Good luck.
2006-09-06 12:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not cause you push his buttons. It takes two to argue. Me an my man argue over little things alot because we both have alot of stress in our lives right now. When someone is stressed or has something on their mind, it's easy for the to freak over little things. It's annoying but just think before you speak. If he says something to piss you off, just don't say anything back negative. Sometime you have to agree to disagree. Good Luck! And everyone argues, even adults! no relationship is perfect.
2006-09-06 10:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by Cris W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there an underline problem that is unresloved? Small problems blow up into big ones because no one talks about whats really bothering them.
2006-09-06 10:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by im2cute4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same goes with me and my hubby! I think it's because we're just trying to find each others fault or in other words we're not suitable
2006-09-06 10:16:18 · answer #5 · answered by coklatbiskut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're both selfish and are acting like children. Grow up and have an adult relationship. They are way more fun!
2006-09-06 10:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by Luckiest_Wife_EVER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not alone... i've experienced the same thing with my ex before... that is why i always make my phone conversation short but tease
2006-09-06 10:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by Squall_22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend some time a p a r t
2006-09-06 10:15:01 · answer #8 · answered by laurali79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u are pushing the issue---life is too short---either agree with him or move on---
2006-09-06 10:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You push his buttons and he reacts.....STOP IT WITH THE HEAD GAMES.
2006-09-06 10:14:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋