I normally just stare at the ground...
2006-09-06 03:05:52 · 14 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I think the biggest thing is just be yourself. Be confident and comfortable with who you are and the rest will come together!
2006-09-06 03:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by trey45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop caring. Stop worrying about what's going to happen if you talk to somebody. Do you know how many people there are in the world? Okay, neither do I, but well into the billions, what's going to happen if some clown you meet doesn't find you attractive? Nothing? You could have 100,000 people turn you down, and that wouldn't even be 1% of the people in this world.
You have to realize that not everybody is going to like you. Do what makes you happy, and stop living in fear of what could happen if people see the real you.
They say the only thing that stops people from being successful is fear, fear of failing, fear of...whatever. Once you get over your fear, you're free to do whatever you want.
2006-09-06 03:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by audemars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be you, act natural, and relax. That's what attracts most people.
As for feeling less nervous, there's a specific type of meditative breathing (water breath) that's geared toward this. Long, deep breaths in through the nose and out through the mouth. The breathing out like an extended sigh is such a release. After a few of these breaths, I feel calmer about everything.
2006-09-06 07:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend.
Imagine someone you know - or a movie star you like. Pretend you're just as cute/talented/fun as her. Spend some time imagining it and be disciplined about behaving that way in your daily life. You'll fail here and there - pick up and resume the pretense.
After a while - things will change for you and pretense will no longer be needed.
2006-09-06 05:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by Alexander Shannon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-06 03:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by steamroller98439 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wanna know what's worked a treat for me? Learning to bellydance. I'm 300+ according to my last weigh-in, but there's something about the dance form that makes you really comfortable inside your skin. And it's funny how I can just switch into "dancer mode" and all of a sudden I'm walking a little straighter and wearing that little "you know you want me" smirk on my face.
2006-09-06 03:10:20 · answer #6 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smile, attempt putting your viewpoint in conversations... attempt your toughest to no longer constantly hear to anybody talk and basically hear... i be attentive to its stressful because of the fact that your shy besides the fact that it facilitates for adult males to hearken to you and comprehend which you're around... tell your self that no longer each guy in the worldwide needs that one female and your no the place close to how she is so which you techniques besides no longer evern difficulty... thats the additude which you should loose with the intention to be greater advantageous around adult males. basically act alive and happy and bear in techniques that anybody in the worldwide has a distinctive flavor and you could bery properly be theirs... attempt astonishing out with adult males one on one... for me i became into constantly greater shy whilst my female buddies the place around... some thing exciting i found out afterward life.
2016-10-14 09:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold your head up high and remember that you can be as interesting as the next person. guys are not that intimidating to know;some are really nice and you will enjoy being around them. besides, walk with self-assurance that not all guys are the enemy.
2006-09-06 03:16:59 · answer #8 · answered by christina p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to think that you are beautiful! You dont have to be afraid of boys! Remember that if you dont have confident you cannot get closer with boys!
2006-09-06 03:09:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...looking at the ground shows that you're under-confident...instead just make up your mind that each guy you're talking to is worth 'talking to'...and LOOK INTO THEIR EYES...guys cant take that!!then they'll be the ones lookin down!!!;-)
2006-09-06 03:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by shulimaan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋