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i have had really abnormal small breasts all my life i would love to feel like a real woman im so ashamed of them i wont even undress in front of my partner, i cant even fill an a cup, id hate to ask the doc as people have more serious concerns than that, iv asked my partner to help but hed rather spend his money on his bike then stare at pics of big busted women all day which mkes me feel great!!! and hes also said that i would definately look better with one i really really hate the way i look and its causing me major mental problems i feel obsessed with it its ruining my life and i hate myself even more for feeling this way. iv even stopped going out to bars and even the corner shop bec i feel so inadequate and feel sure everybody is laughing at me and im forever comparing myself to other its taking over my life and im cracking up please help me with any ideas

2006-09-06 02:56:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style Skin & Body

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You need to accept yourself the way god made you, theres more to you than your boobs, I have friends that have had boob jobs and they regret it now , they've gotton hard they don't feel or look natural they tell me all the time how they wish they never gotton them,Im so glad I didnt get them,Im small and I love it.

2006-09-06 03:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

When you say abnormally small breasts, are they deformed in any way? If you just have a very small chest, remember you are not alone and many women out there also have the same issues, however the difference is the way you are dealing with this. I think rather than fulfilling your wish to have implants, the first thing is to deal with your psychological issues. You may be suffering from what is known as Body Dysmorphic Disorder and I think maybe going to see a doctor might be a start. This is obviously affecting you very badly and I'm not saying, never have implants, but really question why you so desparately need them. Your bf does not sound helpful at all, first he is suggesting you'd look better with them, but he has no wish to help you and then makes you feel bad by staring at pictures of big breasted women. I feel that he may be part of the problem as to why your self esteem is so low. I'm not blaming him, but I think he is holding you back from growing confidence-wise. I really hope things work out for you. Take care : )

2006-09-06 03:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Of course you feel like cr@p. Your partner treats you like it! Go back and read what you wrote about what your partner said to you! Here's my advice: dump the loser. A woman is about so much more than breasts. Some of the most irresistibly sexy women I've known were (as one once said: "Every pirate's dream ... a sunken chest"), 'less endowed' to put it delicately. Sexuality even, isn't about great big lumps of flesh, because other than what you see, here size doesn't matter. Whether a woman is as flat as me, or conversely is so well-endowed that she can provide shelter to small children during rain-storms: when she is touched by a man (or let's get with the 21st century, and say a woman or a man) who loves her, the feeling is equal. Be happy with what you have. You know, a lot of large-breasted women have back trouble later, and most large-breasted women have complained that they're not taken seriously, that they're objectified and harrassed, and men treat them badly. Big breasts won't make a man love you (although, let's be honest, it will get attention, just maybe not from the kind you want). You wanna be popular? Liked? Loved? Respected? Be somebody that other people wanna be around: be confident, be relaxed, have fun, enjoy life, be yourself. Yadda yadda yadda. C'mon, you need me to tell you this? You already know. Leave the immature boy to his bike and his dirty pictures and go find yourself a real man.

2006-09-06 03:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by crispy 5 · 2 0

Why does it have to be free ...
Why do some women have the need to get stuff for free, get a job, make some money, and hire a GOOD plastic surgen.
Then you will get alot of attention from rich guys, you will then dump your boyfriend and have the perfect life....until the infection sets in or some other problem that makes u unhappy in your "inadequate" life.

2006-09-06 04:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by Scooby 3 · 0 0

Get Boob Job surgery in India.Cosmetic and dental Surgery is very cheap in India.There is one company that is very famous in India that arranges cosmetic surgery for foreigners in India.They are called the Forerunners Healthcare.I read a lot about them in the Newspapers and about their patient stories.

I have also read that they arrange financing for american and canadian patients as cosmetic surgery is not covered by insurance.They also have photos pasted of their International patients.You can checkout their website.The cost savings are incredible.As a doctor i personally believe that your boob job surgery can be easily handled in India as the quality of healthcare available here is simply best in the world.The surgeons are USA/UK trained and facilities are 5 star.

my cousin got a couple of cosmetic surgery procedures in India like the breast reduction,tummy tuckand facelift through the forerunners healthcare.she is more than very happy with the results.she just paid 30% of the amount she was quoted in USA and is all praise for this forerunners healthcare company.i personally have seen the wondeful results and am particularly impressed with the kind of quality care she got from this company.

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http://www.forerunnershealthcare.com

2006-09-08 18:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First, get a guy who appreciates you for who you are, not who he'd like you to be. Second, there is nothing wrong with small breasts. All breasts are magnificent, provided they are real. Do you really want to be 50 or 60 years old with fake boobs?

















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2006-09-06 08:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by bodypartsman 1 · 0 0

Your boyfriend loves u thy way you are. Anyway small ones have the advantage that they will till be up there when larger ones will be drooping down round the waist

2006-09-06 03:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by bullatpool 3 · 0 0

At a club in Columbus, Ohio called Major Woody's they give away free breast implants every friday.

2006-09-06 03:15:48 · answer #8 · answered by sexykitty614 2 · 0 1

Believe me, you don't want big breasts. No one takes you seriously and guys don't talk to you, they talk to "the girls".

2006-09-06 03:49:00 · answer #9 · answered by dolphins_chic_69 4 · 0 0

howard stern has been known to give some out

2006-09-06 03:02:59 · answer #10 · answered by tomsls 1 · 0 1

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