I havent been intimate with a woman for unbearable periods of time.
How do I pop the question from the stage I got the woman's phone number?
I dont want to be abrupt or rude but Im too honest.
Like today, was having a phone conversation with a woman and I wanted us to both find out about each other.
So I told her that Im healthy and I like women with high sex drives.
And I asked her what she liked and she wouldnt say anything.
Then she wouldnt take my calls.
Maybe shes not really compatiable with me.
Where then can I find women who know what they want.
Friendship is fine too but I like to know where they stand and what they want and not have to play some mind-guessing game.
2006-09-06 02:54:21 · 8 answers · asked by dasalvager 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Maybe you should talk to the girl a few times before you bring up your dirtiest thoughts. I have a high sex drive but if a guy I don't know talks to me like that during the first conversation, chances are i'm gonna be turned off... and not take his phone calls anymore. If you're looking for a relationship you may want to try taking her out & getting to know her. Most girls want to feel comfortable with a guy before we get into the intimate part of it.
2006-09-06 03:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by Annabelle418 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never find such a woman.
Women are not like men. They don't want the same things. While men want sex, women want love. If you don't love the woman, which is to say to learn her likes and dislikes, engage in conversation with her, buy her little gifts and flowers, do little favors for her, and remember her birthday, favorite color, and how she likes to be escorted (lots of assistance, or little) you won't get any sex.
You can tell if a woman is receptive to men with a high libido (which matters more than her having one) by whether she is affectionate and enjoys being touched.
Now, you must master these few little skills and practice them on two or three women to find out which one likes you the best. That one is the one you concentrate on, and pretty soon you will have sex all the time.
2006-09-06 10:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking about your sex drive over the phone was a huge mistake. That is not the time or place to discuss something like that. It makes you sound like you just want to get together with her and have sex as soon as possible.. that , that is an expectation that you have of her. She doesn't even know you. Having sex with someone isn't like saying that you like to go out to eat at fancy restaurants often. You are talking about sexual relations with someone.. a very intimate topic. There is no "quick way" .. not if you are looking for a real relationship with someone. Otherwise, you may as well go bar hopping .. you'd have better luck that way. If you go that route though, don't expect much more than a one night stand. Good luck ! :)
2006-09-06 10:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying you liked women with high sex drives was your first mistake. That implied you were only after sex. That turns off most women because they want relationships, not sexual encounters like men do.
If you just want a fling, well...you'll have to look for a woman with a different mind set, but those usually won't be loyal to you and will run around with other men.
If you want to catch a woman's attention, be romantic. Straight forward is good once you get to know her. You can't use sledge hammer tactics all the time, learn to be more subtle.
2006-09-06 09:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by Voice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your mistake was diving into the sex talk when you are still only phone friends. If it were me, I would have stopped taking your calls too. Women can know what they want, and still not want to move to quickly. Trust me, that's the kind of woman you want. If you're looking for long-term, you need to take things slowly. Phone to dating -- get to know her ALL about her, not just what kind of sex she likes....then, if you both feel like the relationship has a future, the sex will come. Don't put the cart before the horse.
2006-09-06 09:59:08 · answer #5 · answered by Stormy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love how people say they are being honest to justify being rude. Dude, stop treating women like whores. No woman wants to feel like you are just trying exclusively to get in her pants, especially when that is exactly what you are doing. I get it...you want sex without having to buy her dinner or take her to the movies. No one with any self-esteem is going to fall for that. Women are people, not life-support systems for their privates. Learn that lesson, treat people better and maybe you will have a shot at a real adult relationship -- with all the benefits.
2006-09-06 10:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever hear of friendship, NOT looking at women as sex objects to satisfy your selfish needs, and RESPECT
The sexual act is an act of love between two adults who have, over time developed a loving relationship.
Good for that girl who had to sense to realize you are a selfish pig
2006-09-06 10:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by mjdp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the ASAP portion of it.
Whya re you in such a big hurry to have the sex? Get to know her first and then check for compatibility
2006-09-06 10:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋