why my husband lies I guess i don't understand he always gets caught by me and he says he will stop lieing. But he is still lieing and its' driving me crazy.
2006-09-06 02:50:10 · 22 answers · asked by raven s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hard to trust a liar.
2006-09-06 02:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's no commonsense reason to justify a continuance of lying or being a habitual lying your just a liar and that is simply being put and the truth may not be in you no matter what.
Don't let it drive you crazy just don't subject yourself to his lies and always know you deserve better treatment from your spouse.
A relationship of lies is nothing but a lie.
You need to figure out how crazy you want to become as a result of those lies and if it was me, I wouldn't allow myself to be mentally abused to the point I am playing games with my own mind not knowing what to believe out of my spouse because of his lies.
Bring some truth into the situation by sitting your spouse down and telling him how his lies are driving you crazy and destroying the marriage and see if he is willing to make the necessary steps to change his ways. Good luck.
2006-09-06 09:59:54 · answer #2 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a lier, always a lier. I am in the same position. My partner is a chronic lier, i never can trust anything that comes out of his mouth. But it is up to me to stay or leave. He won't change. I am finding that part very hard as we have a 9 month old daughter. It sucks, its not fair, I try to ignore it, but it won't go away. I feel for you!!!! But do understand this, he will never, ever stop. Not ever. They can't help it. Best of luck and may the force be with you! (And me too.....!)
2006-09-06 09:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by rachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not going to suddenly stop lying. He's not worried about getting caught in any lies, he'll tell more to cover those lies up. He keeps that up and he's going to loose all your trust and possibly you too. Then he'll go around and tell more lies as to why he really lost you.
2006-09-06 09:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's got caught lieing before and you haven't taken any action. so he knows even if he keeps lying you won't do anything and he can get away with it. kick him out of the house for a night and tell him that you're serious when you tell him to stop lying.
2006-09-06 09:55:23 · answer #5 · answered by ohlala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are he lied before you were married and you probably knew about it. Old habits die hard and you married this one. Be patient and forgive. That's not to say it's okay for him to lie, it's to say he will be more penitent the less you chew him out. Be a lovely person and his own guilt might cure his vice.
2006-09-06 09:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by Luckiest_Wife_EVER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hellow don't be scared but you been looking for a solid complete answer to your question for a long time. your husband needs the spirit of god to live in him. you need to find a good pentecostal church to go to never mind race your soul is important. what you are dealing with is spiritual warfare in the home in the whoel entire universe. have you ever herd of a DEMON = an evil spirit. well they live in your husband and your house. and probly you too depending on your life style. what do you do? do you have a con crete relationship with god? you better straighten up with god you have a curse on your life only jesus can remove it. get serious with god and give him your life hey if you don't believe the god in me telling you this it is only going to hurt you. remember, in the end every one must die and you can't stop your own death tell god to help you because if you don't you are going to really have to be in a mental place they don't care about any one the just give you a bunch of medications that the didn't even take. you have to let jesus drive them demons out of your body and keep them out tell god to teach you how to live holy trust in god when all fails. your husband is giving you a clue, he has lost all respect for you because he is lying to you. that is not love. hey aren't you tired of crying, stop trying to understand why he is a liar work on yourself if you don't you are going to regret it. right now you are currently in the first dimension of hell. you and your husband are dead spirtually dead jesus can bring forth life not satan trust god to help you and pray for your husband. god bless we love you cross over to the other side of love we are waiting and no jesus's love is not a cult. cults don't let people email those in need of answers. cults are ran by satan and they kill everyone.
2006-09-06 10:13:11 · answer #7 · answered by lakisia s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes a compulsive liar and he needs professional help for it. he probably doesnt even realize hes lying half the time because he does it so much. if you want to put up with his lies then thats on you.
2006-09-06 09:55:13 · answer #8 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, he may have a mental problem that doesn't allow him to stop lying. Grown people should not be habitual liars. If they are, they need medical help!
If it is effecting your marriage, you need to help him get to a counselor for at least an evaluation.
Whatever he is lying about, it needs to stop!
2006-09-06 09:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't put up with it anymore. if you don't trust him anymore then it is time to get a divorce and move on. you can't change him, he's going to be a liar for the rest of his life. the point is, by lying to you he's saying you're stupid.
2006-09-06 09:54:59 · answer #10 · answered by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋