does he want someone else? our sex life is great,but the only time i get attention is when he wants some. we have sex at least 5 times a week and we play with toys and have a sexswing so i make it very exciting for him and me and in no way am i inhibited about sex i like it all
2006-09-06 02:39:02 · 9 answers · asked by Niese 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
take the sex away and see whats there in your relationship
2006-09-06 02:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, in any relationship there has to be an understanding that works for both of you. If he is into that kind of stuff and it bothers you, then it doesn't work for both of you. He probably does not want someone else, or he'd be out with someone instead of looking at it online. Some guys, even girls, just love porno. But again, if it isn't what you want in a relationship then you need to find a different guy. If this guys whole life it revolving around sex, if you wanna have a real life, then you gotta get out he will probably be this way forever.
2006-09-06 09:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is obviously preoccupied with sex, but regardless of some of your other answers say DON'T CUT HIM OFF! Its clear he knows alternative places to find it, there is so much out there. If anything, see what happens if you join him. Now I'm not promoting Internet sex but I am promoting being a partner with him on a level that involves his Internet sexual fantasies. Eventually try to get him to open up to you with with the what and whys of the Internet experience that excite him beyond the physical sex you share. I expect he will find in you more than he realized he ever had. Talk with him about what gets you going and about what gets him going. When the time is right ask him what the keyboard has to offer that you don't (but don't push that question until you are really comfortable with it).
On a more personal note my wife is very, shall we say conventional when it comes to sex and I am not. That has driven me to the Internet and it is a struggle to stay away from it. In the past I've introduced a couple of toys I brought into the bedroom but I felt she was not real comfortable with them. She is reluctant to verbalize what she likes and doesn't like when it comes to sex, even when I ask. I would give up a lot to have a partner with your willingness to try new things, but one thing I would not give up is my wife.
2006-09-06 10:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These may be hints that he wants to broaden your adventures with one another. Since you say you have not inhibitions, I would throw a few things out there. Put a few options on the table that you wouldn't mind carrying out and see if he goes for it.
2006-09-06 09:45:00 · answer #4 · answered by M D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm 85 groups huh, how would he have time for sex with anything but his hand!
2006-09-06 09:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't like it if my boyfreind was doing that. No matter how much fun during sex we had. Sounds like he needs the net to get him in the mood? I don't know. I wouldn't like it. I'd tell him no more if he were mine.
2006-09-06 09:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably gets so turned on by all that stuff, and that is why you get so much sex...
obviously he is thinking about sex more than doing it... offer it more and see what happens then...
or leave him and find someone who'll spend more time with you...
2006-09-06 09:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has an addiction to sex ,, we all find sex intriguing at the very least but whoaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa OTT bigtime
2006-09-06 09:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by ridingthestorm_out 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may be addicted to the stuff he is reading/seeing on the internet....he may not be able to get aroused without it
2006-09-06 09:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋