He threw all my stuff out and won't let me in
He yells at me whenever he wants
He broke my camara and cellphone, flush all my cosmetics down the toilet and robbed my laptop.
He emailed my professor, making up rumors about me
He called my office and threaten to ruin my life
He deleted ramdom friends on my msn list
He woke me up at 3:00am and let me show him my cellphone list, and called every one to see if they are guys or girls
He forced me to log on my email and he spread rumors to my friends
He cursed me all the bad names u can ever think of
He kept calling me while I was on business trip and sent me 120 msg in an afternoon.
He threatened that if I break up with him he will kill me.
I hate this relationship so much and I can't break up with him.What should I do?
2006-09-06 02:19:28 · 37 answers · asked by angela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
O.k, First of all!! You are NOT alone! This is my story!!
My Sister Marge went to Germany in 1985, and was there for a year! When she returned she, had a surprise for us all! She was married! They stayed married until april of last year, When she divorced him! He became very jelous when he found out she was seing someone a few months after the divorce, So on Tuesday June 22nd of 2005, When she was driving to work, He followed her in his truck, stopped at an intersection, and started trying to get into the car! She left through the passenger side door, and started running down the highway, He grabbed a compound bow from his truck, and shot her through the heart!!!
He hung himself 3 hours later! The police went to arrest him and found him! The day that he murdered her I not only lost my best friend but I also lost my Identical twin! My true soul mate.......
My advice to you is : GET THE **** OUT OF THERE!! NOW!!! CALL THE POLICE!!! GET OUT!!!! GET!!! OUT!!!! NOW!!! DONT WAIT THINKING THINGS WILL CHANGE!!!! THEY WONT!!! THEY WILL ONLY GET WORSE!!! PLEASE JUST GET OUT!!!!!!
2006-09-06 03:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Pest 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When there's a death threat, you should make a police report immediately. You never know what the person is capable of, and I have heard they usually go through with their intentions.
You did not mention children in this relationship? I have always advice people to meditate before terminating a relationship when there are children. But in cases like this, even children are in danger or they just absorb every problem that at the end of the day, they could more affected than the adults in the household.
Try to get help any which way you can before is too late.
Keep in touch please. At this point you need not to be alone, if there is a way you could stay away from him, do go back home.
I'll be praying for your safety
2006-09-06 02:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 09:42:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walking away can be the hardest thing you ever do, but the most satisfying. Get a restraining order out if he has threatened your life. Think of this as a new lease on life - move anywhere in the world you want. Believe me, there is someone out there who will love, protect and support you. I know for a fact!
2006-09-06 02:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by Harriet The Spy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, GIRL, you NEED to get away from this guy!! He is a psycho. You don't deserve that. You need to find somewhere to go where he won't be able to find you, change your phone number and email address, and maybe even switch jobs so he can't reach you. How dare he threaten your life! You could do so much better. If he continues with his violent behavior, go to the police station and get a restraining order against this jerk. Be careful!
2006-09-06 02:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are saying that you can't because you love him.....it is hard to convince u (even if u have to do it). How can you bare all of those things that he is doing to you? Is he your first man? What? Make me understand!
Leave him dear. And then change your phone numbers. I guess he knows where you live. If he still bothers you go to the police. Start a new life with someone to make you feel alive in the good way. I bet u feel empty inside, aren't you.
Do what u know u have to do! Don't lose time!
2006-09-06 02:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by marianaadrianaioja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a relationship. Break up with him, get some help, call the police, move in with your parents or friends, whatever, just get out of there, It's more likely he'll hurt you living with him than away from him...how long are you going to let that go on?
2006-09-06 02:21:27 · answer #7 · answered by sminter2nd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you said it yourself in the last line.. you can't break up with him and then ask what should you do..
well there is nothing until you decide that you aren't going to take his crap any more..
He is one of the jealous freaks out there that have already threatened to hurt you. get rid of his butt. call the cops. have him put in jail.. the abuse won't end no matter what you do .
I have been through this with my second husband .. had him put in jail for molesting my daughter . and divorced him before he got out.. gave me time to change my name and move so that he couldn't find me.. he also told me if he couldn't have me he would kill me.. I believed him .. get out while you can. he has already thrown you out.. so keep on going girl.. it won't get better. You don't want to stick around until someone gets hurt.
show all of the e-mails to the cops and show them what he is saying and doing and they will do something for you.
You can always replace your friends list and phone numbers. so that isn't even a priority.. get away from him and show enough proof of what he is doing to lock him up for a good amount of time..get out now.. think about it later,
2006-09-06 02:35:08 · answer #8 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Angela,
This is really bad, you need to get a restraining order on this creep. Go to the police. Please don't stay there. It is really bad for your self esteem and your emotions. No one has the right to treat a person like that. Be strong and move away. I would suggest learn from this experience and be careful of your choice in men in the future.
Good luck girl You deserve better.
Try to smile.
2006-09-06 02:55:04 · answer #9 · answered by oooooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you are in a bad relationship. It's time to get out of it. He is out of control and he knows that he has put fear in you enough that you won't leave him. It's best if you run as fast as you can from that guy and if need be get the restraining order. No one should treat you like that and you shouldn't let anyone treat you like that.
2006-09-06 02:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋