my fiance and I dont have sex as much as we use to. It was like everyother night, and she loved it. We moved intogether and now its once a month if any at all. why? there isnt any signs that she is cheating. what do you think is going on?
2006-09-06 02:09:57 · 8 answers · asked by thomaswoodsman1981 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It all depends on age, mood swings, tiredness, the relationship status emotionally, etc, etc, etc.
Try spicing things up: flowers, gift lingerie, candles, make her dinner, nice wine, kisses, FOREPLAY, then you might get some- it's never JUST sex!
2006-09-06 02:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by canguroargentino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the old saying about when you get married you sign off for none or almost no sex. It's not because you get married, but because you move in together. Back in the old days you don't move in together until you got married, that is why the connection was made. Think about it. Women are more emotional than men. When you saw each other before it was a "YES!" moment. You know, her eyes light up and her heart startes to race. Now you see each other everyday and the "YES!" moment isn't there. Don't get me wrong, I'm sure you're a great guy, but think of something that is great for men, like the Superbowl. When the Superbowl comes guys are like "YES!" Hot wings, chips and salsa, the ultimate football game on TV and my girlfriend/wife doesn't mind the guys coming over. But if the Superbowl happened everyday, you wouldn't be excited about it like before, my advice: bring her flowers, leave littlenotes for her in unexpected places. The little things will get things moving again. ; P
2006-09-06 09:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by jdecorse25 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be taking away the attention of sex off her and onto pleasuring yourself. There are several ways to get her in the mood but they all need time and effort (its well worth it though). Women don't like the wham-bam-thankyou ma'am style that men love...they're more into the slow, the sensual and the romantic part of sex. That's good because that's how men and women balance out. The trick is to find out how to balance both partners' desires and compromise. What you should do for her is to prepare a romantic dinner, or give her a sensual massage that doesn't necessarily have to lead upto sex, when she's in the bubble bath you can scrub her back or her legs, you can also set candles and the right lights in your bedroom to get her in the mood. But most importantly, you can always ask her that you want to play with her body and not necessarily have sex...more than often, with lots and lots and lots of foreplay, she'll want to have sex instead of letting you stop playing with her. Do stress on the foreplay and communicate with her your concernes and how to pleasure her because she'll get more pleasure this way.
2006-09-06 09:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there is something to be said for marriage before sex and moving in with each other. What do you have to look forward to. Move out till the ring in her finger. Show her the respect she deserves.
2006-09-06 09:17:00 · answer #4 · answered by khaines_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make the move, don't expect her to say come get it.
2006-09-06 11:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i can tell u is whatr i have experienced. my experience is that woman have sex less in the summer so maybe give her a couple months and it will come back. if that isnt her problem then i donno
2006-09-06 09:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by adnama_n_werd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes got you now, so, she doesnt need to have sex all the time...its how it works for a lot of gals...
2006-09-06 09:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your no good.
2006-09-06 09:11:37 · answer #8 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋