I live with a straight friend for 5 years, who has always had many gfs, but once in a while, will let me suck him. He will never do anything back, and wont let me touch anything but his stuff. Also, as soon as he finishes, he turns over and goes to sleep...and we can never talk about it. he is 20 now. why does he act like this??? what should i do??
2006-09-06 02:05:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
did i mention he is hot as hell!!!
2006-09-06 02:31:53 · update #1
because guys like BJs
2006-09-06 02:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he doesn't want to think about this side of his... The idea of being gay or bisexual "eats" a lot of energy in the process of clearing things out and he is not ready for this.
You can try and brake the pattern. Stop doing sexual things with him and observe how he reacts. Move on or continue to stay in this situation. The call is yours...
2006-09-06 02:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by Green Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are doing him a favor. you have part of the responsibility. He's letting you do it because you want it and he is enjoying it. He's not your boyfriend and he doesn't have to do anything back to you. Both are used to it. If you love and care about yourself, have self steam and stop it.
2006-09-06 02:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by nenena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being used. And get yourself into a normal relationship with a real person, not a user.
2006-09-06 02:08:27 · answer #4 · answered by DrSH 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's 2 kinds of gay, an active and a passive...he's a passive kind(bisexual), he's gay too but he doesn't do anything in return. yeah i agree stop being used, unless you like it.
2006-09-06 02:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bisexual or closet homosexual,,either way he cannot escape the fact he likes a man to do this to him so he knows but denies his true feelings towards his orientation,sexual.
2006-09-06 02:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes getting his cake and eating it too...you are being used because you give it to him. really dont know why hes acting like this,,unless maybe he just dont care where he gets his rocks off,or from who.
2006-09-06 02:10:08 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋