2006-09-06 02:04:36 · 14 answers · asked by marfei 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well I will assume that you are ‘married’ to start with…
So how can you be a good wife???….
Love your husband, and try to be his best friend.
Be the best that you can be for yourself and for him.
Look after yourself, and help him to look after himself as well.
Look after each other.
Be honest and open.
Be ‘happy’ and try to make him happy as well.
Be there when he needs you, and help him to be there for you.
Share his interests and his concerns.
Make him your reason for living, and help him to do the same for you.
Be sexy and seductive…
Make him want to be as close to you and as much a part of you as he possibly can be !!!
2006-09-06 02:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love your husband. You don't necessarily need to make him happy all the time, but do try. Don't blow up on the smallest thing. Help out around the house. Also, to avoid headaches in the future, ask him to help out as well. When you first get married picking up his socks and clothes all over the house and cooking him dinner and doing the dishes and the laundry and cleaning and everything is cute and fun at first but take it from me, it gets real, old real quick.
Let him have his guy time. If you keep him in the house because you want it just to be the two of you, he will resent it. Have time for you and the girls as well.
Number 1 rule on how to be a good wife: Stay the same as when you met, that's how he fell in love with you in the first place. Don't become a nagging wife, stay the fun, cute & smart girl that he knows and loves.
2006-09-06 02:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by jdecorse25 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Have dinner ready: Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal — on time. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him, and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospects of a good meal are part of the warm welcome needed.
2. Prepare yourself: Take 15 minutes to rest so you will be refreshed when he arrives. try to be fresh looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people. His boring day may need a lift.
3. Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives, gathering up school books, toys, paper, etc. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift, too.
4. Prepare the children: Take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces if they are small and comb their hair.
5. Minimize the noise: At the time of his arrival, try to eliminate all noise of washer, dryer, dishwasher or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet. Be happy to see him. Greet him with a warm smile and be glad to see him.
6. Don't greet him with problems or complaints. You can tell him all about it when he's a little relaxed.
7. Make him comfortable: Have a cool or warm drink ready for him. Allow him to relax and unwind.
8. Listen to him: You may have a dozen things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first.
9. The goal: Try to make your home a place of peace and order where your husband and you can both relax.
This is what my wife does for me even though she and I work full time but I do help her with the chores and our children so she' not too tired, and in turn she takes care of me.
2006-09-06 02:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mess around on him behind his back, always be honest and communicate about everything! Be best friends, keep a clean house, cook good meals, keep the laundry done. Plane getaways for the two of you even if it is for the day, week or the week-end. Keep the passion alive! Be supportive in all his decision even if you disagree tell him your opinion offer advise but let him figure it out....
2006-09-06 02:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband told me that he and a bunch of guys were talking about relationships. He said the way to make a husband happy is to treat him like superman. Love him, respect him, and treat him like your hero. Smile when he walks in the door after work. Listen to what he has to say. Just love him.
2006-09-06 02:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by bobbysgirl703 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only be true to yourself,no one can tell you how to be a good wife if you not stupid or doesn't have better things to do it's pretty simple,ask mama she'll tell you.
2006-09-06 02:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by jolie minouche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being the same woman you husband married.
2006-09-06 02:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by ade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being submissive to your huz and satisfaying all his needs in any way.
2006-09-06 02:16:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
satisfy your husband in all his needs and also get satisfied by him without putting it too irritatively.
2006-09-06 02:07:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOur inner self will guide you. Do unto him as you would he do unto you.
2006-09-06 04:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋