I havent talked to her in years. Then out of no where she sends me a message on myspace. We have no prior relationship but I'm reminded of how my heart always hurt to look at her. It still hurts when I see her picture. I strangely feel like she's the one for rme and that I hadn't realized it until just now that I've been looking for her. I'm afraid to believe my feelings, but I have to tell her something. I just don't know what. Help!
2006-09-06 01:57:33 · 13 answers · asked by x34986 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Love her. Love needs no introduction, and obeys no logic. If you love her, go get her. Life's too short to justify everything you do. We might as well allow ourselves any joy we can get in this troublesome day and age.
2006-09-06 02:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by kimmunism 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now that we got all the "Love needs no introduction" & "True love" answers out of the way, here's some real advice. What people notice first is their looks and you seem to talk about her picture a lot, however on the web, you meet the person's personality first. If at all possible I would meet her. Ask if she'd like to meet in a public place and keep the first encounter short that way if she's nothing like she is online and you're disappointed you don't have to stay all day, but if you do like her then you can always meet her again. Do profuse your love for her until you know for sure that you actually love her, it could be an infatuation.
2006-09-06 09:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by jdecorse25 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she's nearby you guys can get together for dinner and from there you can tell her how you feel - if you're in different states - send her some flowers - wait for her reaction and then tell her.
It's best you get it over with now than wait till some other guy snatches her up or to find out that she has no feelings for you.
Good luck!
2006-09-06 09:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by piteous_wight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know her only from online, then that is not tru love.It was easier for you to live in dreamland than to go out in real life (same for her).In case that she is a girl from your real life, you should tell her how you feel, anyway nothing to lose,and that will give you a time/reason to move on (with or without her)
2006-09-06 09:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by winter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see for some people love starts from jealousy and some people cant understand their feeling for someone else.try to know whether you really love her or not if you miss her want to be with her want to spend some time with her then that is love and be forward to express your love .if it is too late then your love will be the others one.just tell her without considering the answer which she will give you and hope you will know what should you do
2006-09-06 09:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by sushma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi! i think u need 2 talk because silence begets silence and when u openly talk things become more clear.
u r not having her, so no fear of losing! no committments u have 2 make just chill and talk. first be frens wid her then see where ur feelings go.
all the best.
2006-09-06 09:04:19 · answer #6 · answered by porshia c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I know the feeling...
Its like you really want to be with her for such a long time & now out of the blue,she is giving signs that she might feel the same,but you can't really tell her how you feel because you fear rejection....
Trust me,tell her how you feel....You won't regret it...
2006-09-06 09:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Plz don't delay yourself just take a step of faith and face her. You have to tell her how you feel may be God has chosen her to be yours and yours forever and ever Amen.
2006-09-06 09:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ugh. Relationships suck. Best of luck to you though.
2006-09-06 09:07:16 · answer #9 · answered by yumyum 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be truthful with her, you might find that she has been looking for you all this time with the same thoughts in mind.....what have you got to lose.....good luck.......
2006-09-06 09:00:42 · answer #10 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋