what is married life like.
2006-09-06 01:52:17 · 18 answers · asked by SA angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Compromises--one after another!
2006-09-06 01:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's great, with the right person ofcourse....my reccomendation is live with the person for atleast 1 year before you get married. Things that you don't notice about someone until you actually live together, can make or break a marriage. Some will disagree, and pray for my damned soul, I'm sure....but atleast I know who my husband is, at every hour of the day and night. There was nothing shocking to know about him after we finally got married, 6 years and 2 children after living together. We had a wonderful life together before we married, happy well adjusted children and nothing has changed, except for the fact that I am now eligable for his insurance through work, and I share his last name.....Marriage is in the heart, not on some peice of paper.
2006-09-06 02:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by ndussere 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot more of putting up with each other and fidelity, trust, be there for each other no matter what happen. It's a vow to life-time commitment to each other.
In the beginning, it's a lot of adjusting to do, especially if you have not been staying together. Little difference may end up like big problems sometimes, like even how the toothpaste is squeezed. eg. Man like to squeeze if from the middle of the tube... and woman get mad over it.
One important thing to mention is the finances. You are not alone now.. Finance arrangement should be laid down and agreed. For e.g. what the husband should take charge with, and how the wife should contribute. You will have to work everything out, as small as groceries to big matters like housing loan.
You will find that you will have to be pillars for each other, especially emotionally and physically. And most of the time, even take a step back so that you can acknowledge how your spouse feel when there is a problem between you two.
There is so much more... I can write a book about it.
2006-09-06 02:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by Pencil 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's like a rollercoaster ride. You have to become flexible, bendable and compromise often.
It's hard but easy if you are in love.
It's fun but tiring.
It's sharing and understanding.
It's learning, every day!
It's a job that only fails when you quit.
It is being faithful and loyal.
I think it makes men get a little more in touch with their feelings.
Communication is the key.
Treat your spouse as you want to be treated.
As Rita Rudner once said "I love being married. It's so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life."
2006-09-06 02:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by Fancy You 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Every body have a different married life it's what you make of it,my is not perfect but it's great and I'm thank god for it
2006-09-06 02:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by jolie minouche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must've been asked that question 50 times in the last couple of months. I got married in June. In answer to it it's lovely.
2006-09-06 01:54:36 · answer #6 · answered by Julez 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Compromise and commitment. You have to consider someone else before you make your moves....but at the same time, there's nothing like knowing that you have someone there for you no matter what.
2006-09-06 02:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my married life is bliss, I think we have to be the happiest couple in the world!!
2006-09-06 01:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not all bad. I've done it three times (Twice to the same person) It's all about compromise.
2006-09-06 01:56:06 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a bed of roses. If you don't sweat the small stuff, you can psyche yourself to be happy.
2006-09-06 04:44:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋