This all started when I saw her Bf cheating on her, she got upset, w exchanged words an are no longer friends. Now she's pregnant, dropped out of school an the g she 's with is old an has nothing goin for himself. I was told she was being abused, so I said even though we're not friends let meheck on her. I do, she doesnt answer the phone, next thing i knowww she's tellin people im a lesbo an im stalkin her b/c i want her 4 myself, she's known me4 12 yrs, i can't belive he's doin this. She' even started to send text messages to me an my friends, under fake yahoo names. We tried to talk toher bf about it but he belives her, plus doesnt like me anyway. I had to change my number,what should I do. I told her ife had anything to say , say it in my face, still no reply. she even has an SD she cant get rid of, Im sick of this mess. Thi what I get 4 trying to help.
2006-09-06 01:48:53 · 5 answers · asked by snowprincess20010 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Truthfully don't even put yourself through that stress with this girl because one day she's going to be down and out and she will have to come to you for something. Like my mother told me "never bite the hand that feeds you" and that is some real stuff be because i left my ex bestfriend alone because I had a suspicion that she slept with my ex and I had to do wha t I had to do even though it hurt me I moved on because a true bestfriend will never do anything to betray u and that includes spreading rumors so all u have to do is move on because like i said b4 she'll come crawling back one of these day may not be today or it ma not be tomorrow but she will come crawling back and you just have to do what's best for you, anyway if you know that these rumors about you aren't true don't even worry about it bc she is just trying to get under your skin and probably is trying to pick a fight, just let it fly and when she see that you aren't worried about what she is saying she'll give it up, but you should also see it like this if she keeps running her mouth about you just think of yourself as an celebrity and whenyou see her ask her if she wants an autograph , then that will really get to her and make her upset. Personally I think your being the bigger person by letting it go, just don't worry about her anymore go out and make new friends bc you'll always know who your tru friends are. when you try to help them out or when your down and out, a true friend is going to be there no matter what you go through. and about her being prego (pregnant) don't worry about it because that is her responsibility that's something she has to worry about. I know it is hard giving up a bf after 12 years believe I know I grew up with my bf. so just move on you seem like a really nice person you'll make plenty of new friends.
2006-09-06 02:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by JUICY T. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have saved all those messages so you could of have proof what number the text messages was coming from and took her to smalls claim court to sue her for defamation of character and harassment. Well that was yesterday. I would ignore her because you can't hurt her no more than what she is hurting now. She has a incurable disease, she is being abused, and she has lost a good friend like you. She is looking for a reaction from you and you are playing right into it. If I were you, I would laugh, ignore, and enjoy my life regardless and try to forgive her for what she is doing. I know that is easier said than done but you are the bigger person. I am not saying hang out with her anymore because she has burned those bridges but when people see that you undaunted by the rumors they spread, they eventually stop. But if it gets out of control, I would contact the authorities to file harassment charges. Good luck. I hope everything works out.
2006-09-06 01:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her and move on with your life. Sometimes when people have stuff going on in their life that has brought them down (in her case the pregnancy) they will try to bring other people down with them too. She knows that people are talking bad about her for getting pregnant and dropping out of school so that's why she's trying to divert the attention to you by starting up a rumour, so that people will talk about you instead.
Something like this happened to me a few years ago so I know how people can be. Now, you keep your head up and don't let it bother you. Finish school and go to college. She's the one with the bun in the oven and a cheating man..........so she's the one with the problem. Don't contact her or accept her calls. Intime, she'll realize that you were a true friend who cared about her but then it will be too late. In time, people will know the truth.
2006-09-06 02:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said she was and ex friend.. so leave her alone.. she chose her path in life.. not a very good one garenteed but she chose what she wants.. if she is being abused by this fella. she will have to do what it takes to get rid of him.. some time or the other you will all have to make your own decisions about something like this just remember what she is going through and make sure that you make the right decisions. as for the rumors that she is spreading.. the friends that you have know the truth about you so don't worry about it.. she is jealous because she is trapped in a bad situation.. when she needs you for real she will come to you.. so until then you have nothing to do with it leave her alone..
good for changing your phone number.. it will help til she gets tired of her games. don't respond to her ..
2006-09-06 01:57:47 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
poke her in the eye!
2006-09-06 01:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋