does getting married change your character?..im not talking about how you are spending your time,or putting your ego back a bit for the sake of your marriage...
2006-09-06 01:16:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
im just asking..im not getting married!
2006-09-06 01:20:05 · update #1
yes, of course........I think it unexpectedly changes you.......You don't plan it but ,when you think about it, you are not alone, or just worrying about yourself only any more.............You will have the person you love dear..to think about in many many ways.....For their wellbeing, where they are when you think of them , what the two of you will have for dinner that night...If that person will be mad at you for what you just did.........You will be changed because you are having to answer to another person for your actions, not just yourself..........And visa versa!!!!.You are still YOU, but different in different ways...It's hard to explain, really
2006-09-06 01:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by mom of a boy and girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think marriage changes your character, if your character was going to change it would be strictly your doing after all you have control of your own actions and choices. While i can see how marriage changes people if different aspects such as compromise sharing and all that living together kind of stuff but i don't know why your character would have to change besides your spouse might divorce you if it did.
2006-09-06 01:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me nothing has changed me yet .I m married for 7 years.U know the lady who taught me when i was 10 recognised me on the new year day this year when we met in my parental town.That was about appearence.But i find some changes otherwise:
1.I m more stubborn .
2.I look more towards women.
3.I like to live my way ,thats like i m bit intolerant now.
4.I live more orderly life now .Thanx my better half
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thats all
2006-09-06 05:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by chdman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Groucho Marx once said "marriage is an institution"
I think this could be why so many married people need institutionalizing?
2006-09-06 01:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by okie_dokie_obie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You own a stud officially and he will screw you at least thrice a day and you don't have to make excuses-it will last for about two years after which you have to start getting used to getting his tool to stand firm by sucking it now and then.
2006-09-06 06:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea just look at the number of men and women that never smile after they get MARRIED.
2006-09-06 03:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not married yet but no i don't think marriage will change me. good luck
2006-09-06 01:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course some how it change bcz u get a person in ur life new 2 u & ur circumstance. if ur strong in mind setting then it will change u in favour of u other wise it will destroy u.
2006-09-06 07:27:06 · answer #8 · answered by bibu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
faith and love makes wonderfull relationship but if both things are missing in life then life is finis m vry alon but i face my problams 12years but i m fail in my married life
2006-09-06 01:26:35 · answer #9 · answered by saruchi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It absolutely changes you. You have to compromise.
2006-09-06 01:44:51 · answer #10 · answered by Rhianna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋