2006-09-06 00:56:34 · 17 answers · asked by Poet Master 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
verbal abuse is a form of mental abuse, which is no better than physical abuse. Report her, put her butt in jail and make an example of her!
2006-09-06 01:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate, it will only get worse if you don't, let her know how you feel A.S.A.P! - Communicate about everything!!!! Keep nothing in, keeping things in will only form a pressure and when you finally blow it will be big!
If she continues counsel, maybe she is unaware of how to word things and it all just comes out harmful but a counselor can help her say things in a positive way without being verbally abusive.
2006-09-06 08:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither, verbal abuse is just as bad as physical, if you keep quiet, you hold your feelings inside, if you speak up it'll only get worse.
Ask her to stop or get help or tell her you'll leave. It's that simple.
2006-09-06 08:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a continuing problem, then I would just tell her that you have had it and that if it doesn't stop by(give date) then tell her you are leaving. No one deserves verbal abuse or anyother....that is not a marriage ...she needs to be in the service and become a sergeant!
2006-09-06 08:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by mom of a boy and girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak it always better let her known how you feel.why is she verbally abusing you?
2006-09-06 08:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by jolie minouche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone such as your spouse is mistreating you, you have to speak up and say something express how you feel when she mistreats you don't stand around be except being abused verbally it isn't right tell her she has to give and show respect to you as you do her. I wsih you well.
2006-09-06 08:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by teresa d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i believe that speaking up is better how are you going to let your feelings known if you say nothing. you have the right to have your say and you might be suprised she may respect your opinion. but in any relationship communication is a very important part of it
2006-09-06 08:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak up. If you don't you'll probably end up holding all of this resentment. That would create greater and greater distances between you...and it feels so much better to be close to a person.
2006-09-06 08:02:55 · answer #8 · answered by dulcie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak up. Question is who are you speaking up too? I assuem her but if you have to ask this question I'm not sure your capable of confronting her on this issue
2006-09-06 08:06:46 · answer #9 · answered by JoeP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak up!
2006-09-06 07:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by sarah k 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋