I am not able to forget a girl even after 10 years when i was in High school.
Right now i am working and married.
It happenned recently when i recently found her and exchanged some E-mails.And now it has become tough to work,pass time alone.Whatever i do i see her face around.
Does anybody has any advice for controling such emotions?
She has become a good friend and there are no wrong intentions too but somehow i want her to be near me.Please help.
2006-09-06 00:51:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok, if it has become hard for you to work, to pass time alone, and you want her to be near you, then what holds you from getting a divorce and marrying her??? What is that exactly that holds you from doing that??? Are you afraid to hurt your wife and your children? By getting the divorce you will be making a huge favor to them, because nothing is worse than being married to a man that cannot forget another woman. By divorcing your wife, you will be giving her an opportunity to meet another man who will love her, and only her, and therefore provide her with happiness that she deserves. Children will finally start live in the atmosfer free of deceit. You, will also be happy by finally reuniting with your highschool sweetheart. At first it will hurt, but everybody will be trully happy at last! Here you have a choice, if you can't live without your highschool love - get the divorce. Let your wife go and finally find her own happiness that she deserves. Or keep living in a world of deceit. Decide once and for all, and do what you have to do! What holds you from doing that?
Sounds scary, huh? Then get over that childish infatuation now. The candy in a glistenning wrapping is tempting, but it might be very well not what you expected to taste once you unwrap it. Be careful not to lose a real treasure for a shiny fib.
2006-09-06 01:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u want her more than just a good friend? do u secretly wish u married her instead. are u currently sexually attracted to her? if the above is yes for u, u are on dangerous ground coz you are currently married. u may not want to hear this, but if the above is true u got to break the freindship (honestly tell her) if u want to preserve your marriage & father to your kids if u have any. u can't have 2 legs in 2 boats, can't go far. worst of all, there maybe a waterfall around the corner u can't get away from coz u paddling 2 boats instead of 1. please have good think about things.
most of all, i wish u peace, man
2006-09-06 01:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh, That's like a dejavu of a problem I had.
Problem solved automatically when I changed the city because of job. Damn it felt bad at time. Still really good friends, I wish it could be more than just friends:( I really love her...in my own way...
Can't really give you any good advice because I don't know your situation, just don't let her go if you feel that way...
And don't start dating her or you ruin the whole thing... and you marriage on side.....
Emotions suck, don't know any cure for them. Maybe booze and weed, but nothing else;)
2006-09-06 01:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by ganjanaut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think pretty soon you gone be in big trouble,are you willing to give on yr marriage if not you need to find other way to divert yourself
2006-09-06 00:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by jolie minouche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with friends. Invite her to your house for dinner so she can meet your wife!
2006-09-06 01:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all tell this problem to u r wife she will really help u out and then u may consult a physiologist.
2006-09-06 00:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by rohit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to a GP u trust. its possible u might need anti-obsessional treatment. Best of luck!
2006-09-06 00:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you're asking a wrong a question. ask if you really love your wife.
2006-09-06 00:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by Kerk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your wife know about this... she will give you the best advice.
2006-09-06 00:54:09 · answer #9 · answered by Ah Huay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be with her more and more in presence of your wife, and i recommend to become all of you friends. You, she and your wife.
2006-09-06 01:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by Ioan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋