2006-09-06 00:40:47 · 38 answers · asked by helen 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
first of all don't panic i know lots of people this has happened to just decide what is the best option for you right now, discuss it with your boyfriend/partner then make and adult decision based on your thoughts and feelings. this can be done so you'll cange more nappies big deal i have faith in you go for it girl and good luck xx
2006-09-06 23:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by daftarseuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought of saying something like stop having sex or use protection but those are just flippant so I'll leave that kind of comment to the other plebs
you have a number of considerations - putting it up for adoption, bringing it up yourself, having an abortion. Those are the obvious ones. Of course the best suggestion is speak to your mother and the father (if you're still seeing each other and on speaking terms of course) and decide together. You could always go to a family planning clinic for advice, as well as free condoms incidently, plus there are a variety of helplines and advice lines and centres you could choose.
Hope it helps and good luck.
2006-09-06 00:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by mancunian_nick 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you haven't been the most responsible of people have you? At the end of the day you have a child to look after and another one on the way. You will just have to hope that you have supportive family, friends and partner.2 children are alot of hard work. I suggest you talk the situation over with your midwife who will know what help is available. I really do wish you all the best but please go straight on the pill when this baby is born...just think of the well being of your children. xx
2006-09-06 00:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for your family for support.
Love your children.
Try to get an education.
My friends has two children, ages 3 months and 13 months. Yeah, really close. She is 19 years old. She doesnt regret having them but knows it makes her life very hard, and will be for the next 19 years or so!
She is now taking some night classes, her mom watches the children while she is in class.
There are programs to help you out, if you want to continue your education.
Good luck
2006-09-06 00:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by Miz_Kassandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The choice is entirely yours, don't let people pressure you into anything you dont want to do. You need to think of a few things, can you financially support yourself and children?, are you getting enough support from famil, friends etc, do you think you will be able to cope with another child with your first still being young and dependant on you? I'm sure you'll make the right choice, just remember don't let anyone make the decision for you. Good Luck =)
2006-09-06 03:46:27 · answer #5 · answered by xxsexyxx 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have the baby and if you don't want it give it up for adoption. There are very many people who are unable to have babies that want one. DO NOT HAVE AN ABORTION! I am telling you that you will regret it forever. I got pregnant at 17 and had her then I had my middle daughter when I was 18. I could not really afford it at the time but between their daddy and me working we managed.
2006-09-06 00:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by dee-n-buck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first up... KEEP YOUR LEGS CROSSED! it's the best form of contraception. If you decide to keep the baby, then make sure you love it or consider adoption if you can't financially cope. if you don't want another baby, then consider getting yourself to a doctors to discuss your options as a young mother.
Afterwards, get your *** down to the chemists and buy yourself some bloody jonny's and use em! And get yourself on the Pill if you can...
People can be so foolish!
2006-09-06 01:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by brumbeep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BIRTH CONTROL.... are you married? silly question. honey you need to talk to someone before you completely ruin your life. where is your mother? if you want to talk email me offline. you have so much potiental. please use your head and not your body. women have come so far yet some persist in staying stuck in the old rut of barefoot and pregnant. women can do so much more. we are empowered to change our lives for our own good. how much education do you have? second child at 17 is not a good thing. please don't throw your life away. there is so much our there now that can help you find your own way in life and not rely on anyone but yourself. you are capable of doing this. we all are. i don't personally believe in abortion for there are many adoption agencies for that. God gave the baby to you, whether it be to raise or to adopt out. there are many choices so please take time to think over your life and decide what is important in life to you and do something to make your life better for you and the child you already have. think about them first and how you can improve the life you are giving them.
let God guide you and let him help you make the decision that is right for you. he will not steer you wrong.
honey i hope i have helped you and i will pray for you. good luck.
blessed be,
Elizabeth
2006-09-06 00:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by elizabeth j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do us all a favor and go to the vet and have that thing sewn up shut. I am sure that even if people tell you to stop having sex it would not matter because you would not listen. So for the sake of every person that pays taxes in order for stupid people like yourself to go out and produce a ton of babys for others to take care of, get it sewn shut. See ya on the Jerry Springer show.
2006-09-06 01:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by Dalton125 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will always find a way to cope, challenges are what life is made of.
For goodness sake get some birth control after this child or stop having sex.
2006-09-06 01:10:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋