Am I the Only One Who Keeps Making Stupid Life Decisions? I Need a Reading?

Question

I can't figure out my career path and I am very weak in that area. I am in debt up to my ears. I keep moving from state to state. I guess I am lucky to have the chance to explore, but come on. I just wish I could find my niche.

Born 10/21/64 NYC, 8:32 pm.

I welcome astrologers advice also.

Answer 1

This may give some insight to YOU
October 21, 1964

Personal Year: 3
Self-expression and optimism fill your moments now. The waiting period is over and it's time to jump up and get on with things. Luck is on your side, and you seem to shine with sunny warmth and enthusiasm which draws well-wishers, (and potential benefactors), to you from near and far. Creative pursuits, travel, and communication of every kind is emphasized now. This time can bring an actual "birth", or a figurative one in the form of a new business or career, a work of art or even a new self-image. The important thing is that you use this time of opportunity to the best of your advantage and find new ways to express who you are.

Personal Month: 3
This is the month to express! Start a journal. Write those letters. Play and imagine and invent a new product. You're lucky and you look good, so go for it!

Personal Day: 9
Clean house. Go on a one day juice fast. Take someone dear to the zoo and have eye contact with the gorillas. See the interconnectedness of all things. Be grateful. Wear any color that makes you feel good.

Destiny: 33
The Destiny number describes the life lessons that we have come here to learn. It reveals to us the path we must take, and the role we must play to fulfill our mission. Often our choice of career is based on this vibration, and if not, then it will manifest through avocational pursuits. We may attract people and experiences into our lives that mirror the traits of this number for us, so that we may develop into our highest potential. We don't always welcome our life lessons, so it is a possibility that we may even feel an aversion to the characteristics of our Destiny number in other people, and we may ourselves act the opposite. In spite of the many ways we may choose to react to this force within us, we have been gifted with all of the talents and energy needed to fulfill our Destiny. As the higher octave of the number 6, "master number" 33 is the number of compassion. It is called the Christ vibration and requires self-sacrifice, courage and unwavering commitment to reform , truth and healing. You are on a "mission", and other teachers will learn from your honesty, discipline and bravery. You are here to provide sustenance for the hungry, whether it be through food, beauty, education, ministry or medicine. Yours is the path of "savior".

Cycles
The destiny is divided into 3 great cycles, each governing us for specific durations throughout our life. The Seed cycle begins at birth and colors our experiences through childhood and adolescence. During the year nearest our 28th birthday, we move into the Fruit cycle which remains throughout the middle part of our life until the year nearest our 56th birthday, and the Harvest cycle carries on from there. Taken all together, the cycles show us our particular path that will lead to the fulfillment of our destiny.

Seed: 1
When 1 is the seed cycle it is more difficult, as the child is surrounded by other people guiding their life, and the inner desire for independence, freedom and self-motivation can lead to conflicts with authority or withdrawal.

Fruit: 3
This is a happy, carefree time of life, where free self-expression is ideal. Friends and social activities grow, and much assistance will be found here. Artistic endeavors and any possible use of words, spoken, written, or sung, are richly rewarded during this cycle. Your appearance is important to you now.

Harvest: 2
"Togetherness" is the theme of this cycle. They are rarely alone, and social invitations abound. Two harvest people are usually collectors of something; stamps, dishes, cars, figurines, postcards from their travels...

Pinnacles
The four pinnacles reveal the high spots or heights of attainment that we are likely to encounter as we move along the path of our life. The 1st pinnacle lasts from birth to around age 28. The 2nd pinnacle lasts for 9 years after that. the 3rd pinnacle lasts 9 more years, and the 4th pinnacle carries on through the rest of our life. The peak of the pinnacle is reached during the next 1 personal year. Pinnacles are like sudden inheritances from a benevolent aunt, they can transform the prevailing energies completely and suddenly. It is useful to look ahead and prepare for our pinnacles so that we can maximize their gifts to us and shape them into the most positive manifestation.

First Pinnacle: 4
This is a period of practical, orderly construction. Creativity can be harnessed and focused on a goal. The practical, hard work you are doing now is building a strong foundation for the rest of your life to grow from.

Second Pinnacle: 5
The 5 pinnacle will bring opportunities for freedom in any area that there has been stagnation, so changes in job, relationships or residence are common. If there is a resistance to change, it may be manifested through something or someone seeming to force it. Either way the change will occur.

Third Pinnacle: 9
A time of completion, change, and charity. This is a period where there will be an urge to focus your energy on humanitarian and self-less efforts. Fine artists, poets and philosophers vibrate this energy.

Fourth Pinnacle: 3
This is a time of laughter and friends, writing letters or even books. Communication is your greatest tool now, as is your infectious positive attitude. Luck and abundance are in your pocket. Tell your stories, everyone is listening.

Challenges
The three challenges show us the major influences demanding our attention during specific sections of our lifetime. The 1st challenge influences the years from birth to age 28. The 2nd challenge takes over from age 28 to 52, and the third affects us our whole life. Challenges shape our attitudes and can affect our health. These vibrations that challenge us, cause either an exaggeration of the associated qualities or a lack of them, both of which are extremes which need to be brought into balance.

First Challenge: 2
A child with this challenge is very sensitive. There are many tears shed and extreme shyness is likely. They develop an intricate system by which they ensure the appropriate amount of attention from others. Through giving and intuiting other people's needs and filling them, but also by "nit-picking" and pursuing endless cycles of discussion about petty annoyances and imperfections. Two's are very intuitive and empathic, and when they are confidant and expressive they can be powerful healers.

Second Challenge: 1
1's challenge is about independence and initiation in spite of any opposition. Like all challenges, balance is to be found and for this challenge the balance is in asserting their will while also considering the will of everyone else involved, not by sacrificing but by cooperating. The balance can be found in the 9 and the 2. A view of the big picture, humanity and all, coupled with a sensitive intuition. In this way the 1 can accomplish their aims with the assistance of all concerned.

Third Challenge: 1
The challenge of ambition and will-power. The 1 challenge holder may feel that their natural will and desire to create, explore and discover, is being thwarted by external circumstance or authority. This may lead them to snuff out their own bright flame in an effort for harmony. The challenge is to acknowledge this tendency and to force themselves to forge ahead and assert their will against, or in spite of opposition. The key is to act upon one's firm decisions, making sure it is the best choice and then committing to the final outcome. The opposite of this is possible where the challenger is so focused on their own will and desires that they trample over everything else in their path. In this case the remedy is to realize that we are all sharing this experience together, and to act accordingly.

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 2

1. Join the military (you'll receive help in finding a career that fits your aptitude, be able to clear up your debt, still be able to travel/move around, and still get paid).

2. Check out "What Color Is Your Parachute" or similar book and see what career suggestions come up.

3. Write down all the things you are good at and see what careers you can incorporate those skills to make money.

4. Get a job with the Federal Government and try to get into Contracts and/or Grants or Program Management (re: PMP Certification). PMP for Dummies is a good book.

5. STOP buying material things that you do not need. Ask is this a want or a need. If a want save up for it. You do not have to wear the best clothes, drive the best car, or try to be something that you aren't. People who do that aren't really impressing anyone.

6. Check into loan consolidation and stop living above your means.

Remember you aren't alone and there is much info out there to help you decrease your debt and live a simplier lifestyle. Choose something that will not only make you happy so that you enjoy getting up and going to work, but also that is of service to other people. Money will come if you enjoy what you do.

P.S. Don't pay any counseling service to help you get out of debt. Get a book at the library and do it yourself.

Answer 3

You are absolutely not alone. I have suffered the same in regards to a career path, so take comfort in that. Most people don't get it, so I don't talk about it much. The best advice I can give you is try not to move around so much. That just adds more chaos to a life that's been chaotic because of a lack of direction, and makes staying organized and financially stable more difficult. I hope you find an answer to your dilemma soon. Good luck :)

Answer 4

I guess it needs looking into oneself to know ur strengths and capitalize on them... Don't do anything u are not made for...
And hey dear you are not the only one who makes stupid decision... everyone makes at one point or the other... wish u a break through asap! Good luck....
BTW I was reading a book called "Purpose Driven Life" by Rick Warren... You might want to know why you are what you are and how to live a fulfilling life...

Answer 5

There are a lot of people like you they are called nomads it is something you can not help. but try to stay in one place as long as it takes to get some of your bills paid, then move on to the next place

Answer 6

There you go..another stupid life decision by providing your personal details online!

You dont need somebody to read your future or whatever, all you need is think before acting. Plan as much as possible and weigh the pros and cons before leaping into another situation.

Answer 7

Stop looking to the stars, make it happen for your self. You control your own destiny. The way I see it if you can't make it happen where you are you can't make it anywhere. Good luck.

Answer 8

just make it. do what you have to do to pay back the debts. aint no sense to make more. be satisfied with less and work harder. maybe get a man who helps you working on yourself.
just make it!

Answer 9

i can't say much but you need to pray for a change

Answer 10

you are not the only One:)