2006-09-05 23:48:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
but there is this one lady in my job. she dresses conservatively, but she has a side job at a topless bar. everyone leaves her alone.
2006-09-06 00:01:25 · update #1
Because you're dressing provocatively.
2006-09-05 23:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by prayinfroggy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You poor dear. Maybe the way you dress really makes you look like one.
Seriously, if you dress like there has been a serious fabric shortage in the world, people would have that kind of impression toward you. Try NOT dressing provocatively. A little flesh is fine, and you DO need to keep up with the times, but do not become a fashion victim. Let them chase you instead of offering yourself to the guys. Hints of flesh here and there instead of a free-for-all buffet.
2006-09-06 06:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by jarod_jared 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if you're advertising you must be selling....or so the story goes.
Everyone will scream you have a right to dress how you want so I ask....why do you want to dress like a slut?
Why do you want to look cheap? You have seen for yourself that it makes people think that way of you!
You should have more respect for yourself than that...and before you say it. You can be in fashion without those stupid looking clothes that barely come up for the jeans and barely come down to your stomach. Why should anyone respect you when you dress like that?
Image is everything....remember the Brittney Spears interview. She may have had some intelligent things to say (ok I doubt it, any idiot that drives her kid without a car seat is too stupid to be alive) but she is sitting there in bleach blonde hair and black roots with her 6 month pregnant boobs flooping out and her flabby thighs showing smacking gum....she looked liked cheap, ignorant white trash (and she is money doesn't change it)
You can show off your body (assuming you aren't one of those fat girls who thinks she's cute with her belly rolls showing who look even worse in lowrise....half the girls I see who look fat wouldn't if they'd wear clothes that fit better) in a tasteful, not cheap way and attract a better class of guys.
Good luck on the virgin thing.....keep it till you get married.
2006-09-06 06:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by jm1970 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your dressing like that then you must realize that you will be judge by both women and men to be easy !!! Maybe consider a fashion consultant as their is other styles that are really appealing to men then sleazy . In the end ask yourself the type of men you want to be attracted to .By dressing the way your doing you will only find a man that wants a one night stand .to ge any guy you want as a keeper you would not want him to get a first impression like what your giving off
2006-09-06 06:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by HAPA CHIC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys see the provocative dress as an advertisement.
2006-09-06 06:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by bonzo the tap dancing chimp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically actions speak louder than words. Thus looks can be deceiving, but do leave a lasting impression!
2006-09-06 06:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey draws bees... thus dressing that way will make people think you are easy or a whore.
2006-09-06 06:59:57 · answer #7 · answered by Cinderella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really care?
2006-09-06 07:00:55 · answer #8 · answered by aquarious 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋