2006-09-05 23:46:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Of course. Sometimes it takes a long time to get over someone. It took me almost three years to get over my ex-husband even though he did me wrong in some of the worst ways. As you know the brain and heart are rarely on the same page. You know you don't want them back for whatever reason, but you can't help but miss and love them. Give yourself time and don't rush it. It'll come in time.
2006-09-05 23:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 5 years I still miss my ex. But we grew up together. Got married when we both were 18 & were married almost 30 years. Most of those years we fought like cats & dogs. It took the whole 1st year for me to stop hating him. And to stop dreaming we were still fighting. Now it seems the longer we're divorced the more I remember the good times. Sorry to say it, but I miss him more now than ever. The up side is, we get along better now.
2006-09-06 07:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by ICUsmile 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. The experts that study this issue say it takes one year for every 4 years you were together to heal from a relationship. It takes time and I'm sure you would agree that you are doing better now than you were 9 months ago. It's okay to feel the pain...allow yourself to heal before you get into a new relationship..you owe it to yourself and your next partner to be whole...and not just what's available!
Good Luck!
2006-09-06 07:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. All our experiences in the past are etched in our memory. Some recall will arise when we do something now that reminds us of incidents in the past.
What is more important for you is whether you have moved on with your life. If you have, then at times when your memory of the past with someone returns, it will not bother you.
Look on the positive side of your present relationship than on the past. The past is over. What's important is the present. Live your present, not the past, which matters no more!
2006-09-06 07:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes i miss an ex boyfriend for more than a year. it's ok. but now i understand that when something ends for any reason you should put it behind you, and start over again. so forget about your ex. there is plenty of people out there waiting to meet you!
2006-09-06 07:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by ves 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"YES"! Hell,** It took me a year to stop thinking about the "Only" Man that Ever Broke my Heart!
2006-09-06 06:53:20 · answer #6 · answered by kellylewis652000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure it is its not easy forgetting someone especially if you were in love but be strong and hang in there
2006-09-06 06:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has been nine years and I am married and I still have dreams of mine
2006-09-06 06:52:22 · answer #8 · answered by 9929 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes,there's is nothing wrong that
2006-09-06 08:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by jolie minouche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋