After i had an argument with my partner last week, we are on talking terms. However, he is not feeling himself at the moment and is very rundown. I am staying at my mums since the argument and i havent seen him in 6 days. All i want to do is see him and sort this argument out once and for all. How long would you wait for him to tell you he is ready to see you especially if he is not well????
2006-09-05 23:35:31 · 13 answers · asked by carolina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he is rundown due to doing too much. He has also been looking after me since i was ill myself and i was staying with him. I had major surgery.
2006-09-05 23:38:08 · update #1
he has always been the type who likes to be left alone when he is ill.
2006-09-05 23:49:15 · update #2
you should go to him immediately
2006-09-05 23:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by soofi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go see him now. The gesture itself may be enough to sort this argument out.
Not feeling yourself cause of doing too much is not a reason not to sort out something as important as a relationship. Sounds like he's playing on the fact he's down to get some distance from the whole situation. Get it sorted. Immediately.
2006-09-06 00:55:26 · answer #2 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give and take.
Love is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. and no rush. Boys look at 2 things, prettiness and good personality. You know what pretty is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then, don't be sad and give up like others do, maybe there's still a chance u can improve. All the best to u.
2006-09-05 23:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just ask. Maybe take him a box of herbal tea. If he doesn't want to see you, try not to take offence. Maybe he is waiting for you to make the first move? You might wait an eternity to find out. Or call him and say you hope he's feeling better.
2006-09-05 23:38:56 · answer #4 · answered by big_fat_goth 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell girl go to him NOW if hes sick he needs to know that you're willing to look after him the way he looked after you when you were ill. Dont let pride get in the way here - just bite the bullet and go to him - I might hold off the big talk about the argument whilst hes feeling sick - but show him that he has your support and give him loadsa tlc!!
2006-09-05 23:47:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take round some chicken soup (home made) and a white flag and just drop it into him, that way he knows you care and are still there for him but your not pushing him into being socialble.
if your sure the love is still there then bide your time after dropping off the soup, but dont forget you are entitled to be part of this relationship so dont let yourself be a doormat.
2006-09-07 09:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by Girl From Mars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A quick phone call to say ' i love you and know you want space but was just checking you are ok because I care' wont hurt a bit ..
It may also open the door and remind him of what he is missing ;)
2006-09-05 23:39:38 · answer #7 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait for him to say anything, go to him and make him understand and I'm sure you can think of a way to cheer him up for a while. Be spontaneous and show your love.
2006-09-05 23:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u r on talking terms, then u can wait longer, may b till the time he is ready, depends how much u love him, patience is the key word, if he loves u, he will come bak
2006-09-05 23:39:35 · answer #9 · answered by hmmm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't wait just call him now , you will not loose anything , you will get enormous happiness after your first move , do it , do it , do it now .
2006-09-05 23:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what You want to do,!! if you want to get it sorted then get over there and do it he wont be that ill he cant speak You don't have to request an audience
2006-09-05 23:43:12 · answer #11 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋