i have a crush....but the problem is he is a gay or bi male. My friends tell me I'm crazy. But I can't help myself falling for him. He didn't know my feelings about him. I can't tell him becuase if I will tell him,he will ignore me all the time. I try to forget him but it is useless. Everyday I see him. Every minute I remember him.
WHAT SHALL I DO??? pls help me
2006-09-05 22:50:47 · 7 answers · asked by jopay 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First off, women who knowingly chase gay men are branded...not a good thing to be called a f@g-hag. You need to find a different play ground girl friend. Also, when you fantasize about him sexually, just throw in the image of him sucking on the penis of your brother, or moaning with a penis up his anus and that will cure you instantly.
2006-09-06 01:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once had a crush on a gay guy too. I did not feel the need to tell him cos he would not be interested anyway. The feeling was rather sweet though. I have since moved on but he still is one of the nicer guys I have known.
Is it that important to tell him or not to tell? Why not just enjoy the feeling of crush and let the rest go to time?
2006-09-06 06:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by Ttraveller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be his friend and enjoy it for what it is he is a great guy and you like him a lot. But he is not going to be interested unless he is bisexual then you might have a chance but chances are better off just enjoying him as a friend. Just flirt and see where it goes. if it goes nowhere then let it stay there. If it does go somewhere then be careful about understanding what fidelity means to the both of you.
2006-09-06 09:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh crushes come and go, i wouldnt really be wanting to go forward with anything, there is no future,lol!
maybe just start to flirt a bit, if he is really gay/bi, he will be up for it, most i have known have been the biggest flirts with men or women! just play with these feelings, have some fun!
2006-09-06 06:11:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a 24 hr job
if not a hobby
if not become a zombie
2006-09-06 07:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by pagolpakhi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals, why do you need to forget .... just let nature take its course
2006-09-06 05:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by joslin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Catch hold of him and ask frankly and act accordingly.
2006-09-06 05:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by a j 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋