People, eventhough I put forward a solid first impression, later on, ppl think of me as a fool. They back-bite, talk sh*t abt me. I just dont understand where it all goes wrong.
I'm kinda semi-shy. I'm coming outta the shyness shell. On my 1st day of college, every1 was in awe with me. They used to have a pretty high opinion abt me. But nowadays (a mnth since college started), I can see that they dont kinda have the high opinion they used to have once upon a time. They treat me as sh*t.
And I dont think I deserve to be treated like that & I dont even know wer I went wrong. I've gotta stay at college for 3 yrs. I dont wanna mess with ppl but at the same time, I also wanna send them a clear message that I aint sh*t.
Are they jealous coz I always answer all questions in the class? Or is it something else?
One of my frnd told me that my classmates think I have some kinda attitude, but when I dont talk much, how can I be categorized as some1 having attitude?
I'm confused. Plz help me
2006-09-05 21:55:23 · 8 answers · asked by Rajeev 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I aint a bookworm. I kinda EXCEL in everything I do. Kinda "Jack of all trades" !
2006-09-05 22:16:41 · update #1
Well, answering all the questions in class- that might irritate some, but you have to just be yourself.
Stop worrying so much about what others think of you. You don't need them to hold you in high opinion. It won't make any kind of difference, at the end of the day you will leave college andhave your own life- yours not, yours and your college buddies who love u so much. So please stop obsessing, know your true friends and keep them close, and f**k everyone else. ok. Life's too short to keep trying to please everyone. And that is impossible- Not everyone is going to like you, but guess what it doesn't matter. Do what you like. Take up a hobby, a sport and enjoy your life. If the college environment gets you down, get out of there right after class, go swimming or hiking or something. Keep you free time busy so even your time in school won't seem so bad. And lighten up, others will notice this too and be drawn to you.
Just dont change for anyone. With time they will appreciate you for being yourself and sticking to that.
2006-09-05 22:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by stj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hai..,
hey dont feel da.., people came to u in the beginning days because they dont know anything about u.. and mostly people have a thinking that college life is only for enjoying and thats y.., when u r good in answering and all they think u r not an enjoyable person ,,.., and u be the same chattings and laughs are not going to come in the future only ur studies and character..,
some one will like ur real character and be a friend to u.., so dont worry..,
be soft and an interesting character to others..,
make the people sorround u..,
have an individuality..,
take care
2006-09-05 22:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by uma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it comes down to this, People see that you are happy and sucessful, and get jelous. Keep answering questions, these people wont be a problem once your out, so dont let them effect your future.
If you want them to not think your ****, then hang out with them, or talk to them, if you aren't shy enough NOT to answer questions, you should be able to talk to people, and it might be akward at first, but most people will commend you for trying and i PROMISE practice makes better in this case, i sucked at talking to people, and now im the person most come to for help on hopw to saythings to get the reaction they want. Ive sat and observed peoples behavior for sometime now, and most people when they see someone happy will try to end that. Study them, see what their motives are, and act accordingly.
2006-09-05 22:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by Dylan F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 05:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they are loking for a party animal aditute not a shut in book worm personility umm not sure what it really is for you. do not know if they think your a wimp cause of shyness or quiet or if you hardly date maybe that might or might not be any way good luck!
2006-09-05 22:06:01 · answer #5 · answered by Paul G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe coz u dont talk much they think u have attitude so talk
a little more and make some funny jokes.
2006-09-06 00:16:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words.
2006-09-05 21:58:59 · answer #7 · answered by Nana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't have time
2006-09-05 22:17:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋