his son has 8 years old.
his daughter has 14 years old. he divorce and i havn't married still now.
this marriage is good for me???
2006-09-05 21:43:58 · 12 answers · asked by fariba j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you should be sure and know him very well, listen to your heart, if that guy being good man and he trate with you good and if you bleive that you can live your rest llife with him and with his childeren , go ahead, but i advice you try to know him very well before you marry him, ask him to give you more time.
good luck.
2006-09-05 21:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What seems to be the problem If you love each other then there should be no doubt in his mind. However do take the kids in consideration and in a very suttle way find out how they feel about it. Remember they will become part of your daily life for a good couple of years to come.
As far as the age is concerned It should not be a problem. I am 12 years older than my wife and we been married for 13 years and still very happy.
2006-09-05 22:21:31 · answer #2 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh expensive what a great difficulty it rather is for all worried and in case you marry for the sake of the infants then what in case you won't be able to abide the father's interest in the direction of you, he will easily want intercourse and that i won't be able to study the place you assert you like the guy. interior the period in-between the undesirable mom is in a coma and it rather is one very undesirable unhappy concern. You on my own might desire to be certain on marry the guy and be there for the infants until they are grown up or permit him marry yet another female, you could constantly be of their lives and that i don't think of any new female could be merciless to the infants. you're very youthful and that i could hate to be certain you get harm although there's a divorce to evaluate first of all so there is not any rush to come to a decision now through fact a divorce will take a while to be finalised. I choose you each and every and all of the terrific and additionally with a bit of luck your sister might astound everybody and start to strengthen.
2016-11-25 00:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're both in love and you're ready to deal with a teenager and an 8 year old then go ahead. Don't see a problem in that.
2006-09-05 21:47:34 · answer #4 · answered by Ocean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really up to you.
Bieng married & having kids are 2 separate things to me.
You would probably want to enjoy being a wife first before being a mother.
2006-09-05 21:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Im 19, my husband is 36 and he haves two kids from his ex-wife, both boys ages 8 and 13. Things are great with us. I think it just depends on if you are able to handle it.
2006-09-05 21:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know the answer. I don' t know how old you are. It could work out if both want it to
2006-09-05 21:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by jm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both love each other i cant see nothing wrong in that good luck to you both and age isnt a factor. in my opion?
2006-09-05 22:16:51 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its ok, he will probably treat you better than a younger guy. Who knows, only you can decide.
2006-09-05 21:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by stj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if the man is caring and gentel
2006-09-05 21:46:32 · answer #10 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋