I want to please her, but I get off before her. I would like her to go before me. Is there any advise out there. I tried to search on the internet and all I could find is pills. I wont take a pill.
2006-09-05 21:40:42 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Try getting her to climax by using your tongue or hands instead. Give her a head start so to speak by indulging her in something other than penetration. You don't have to go straight in there at the same time. Let her enjoy and bring her to the brink before you start. Either let her go all the way by these other methods or get her almost there, as she climaxes or is really close then go in so she can O before or with you. Just experiment with timing and communicate so you know when she is almost there. Start her off and ask her to let you know when you should go there. She may prefer you use your tongue to take her all the way, then have you penetrate.. women can have more than one orgasm and you may be able to please her first then again with you. good luck
2006-09-05 21:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always remember that a woman can outlast a man any time and every time!!! You cannot rush the honey pot and your darling cannot give all at once. You must work together.
Try giving her lots of oral sex BEFORE any penetration. Many women will be near climax if it is properly done. She may have to avoid giving you an oral - it may make matters worse.
When it comes to penetration - don't jam like a dog - take your time and savour the moment. Your girlfriend may then become excited and want more; and .........(discover out the rest the next time you do it)
2006-09-05 23:22:50 · answer #2 · answered by springday 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 09:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use for play first this will help her climax faster. Try thinking of something totally non sexrelated. like stair at the wall and try to figure out shapes that the stucko is making haha.
good luck man
2006-09-06 09:10:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for tropical anesthetic cream, one that contains benzocaine :) works like a charm.... numbs the living s*** out of your penis for a while..... or you can just take a few seconds pause that works as well before contiuning.
2006-09-05 22:35:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to harmony in london and get yourself something called delay spray which means you can go for longer and your girlfriend could come first. all use your hands to help things along.
good luck...i hope it works out
2006-09-05 21:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by SA angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of your mother, I have heard this is the most effective technique
2006-09-05 21:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by kirstalina81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wan*k off before you and her do the deed. it will help some
2006-09-05 22:36:41 · answer #8 · answered by Nate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋