He also keeps telling me that he loves me more than his life.
2006-09-05 20:09:35 · 15 answers · asked by Alley Marie Gracelynne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That's not the question you want answered or addressed. You don't even have a question...you know the end results.
But you do need overwhelming confirmation/advice of what you must do, encouragement, and support which will give you the strength to do the right thing.
You know these are just words to him. The same lines he is probably telling many others and yes, still telling his wife just as he promised before God, family and friends on the day he married her.
Seems like his conditional credibility is just a game to win over women.
His story changes with every turn of his head and wondering eyes to fit the situation.
If this were not the case, he would have made the move to end the marriage before entering a relationship with you.
He doesn't love you...He doesn't even respect you now...And he never will. And you won't respect yourself along as you are with him.
2006-09-05 21:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by cfreeman0228 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY IN HELL !!!! should you believe him!!! I'm pretty sure he is telling his wife that he loves her too. He will tell any one of you anything as long as he knows thats you want to hear.Obviously he needs to grow up and be a REAL man because when he married his wife he made a committment to love and honor her for the rest of their lives and since he obviously has broken that by being involved with you then that should show you what type of MAN he really is!!! Do you really enjoy being the other woman? Don't let this scumbag ruin your life and hurt you because in the end honey he will probably more than likely stay with his wife!
2006-09-05 20:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. (Meaning: You should not believe him).
Unless he is already deeply into a divorce, he is obviously lying. And most likely, even then, he's lying. Men will do anything to get a chick.
Obviously he doesn't love you more than his life. Can you imagine a person feeling that way, and still being married to some other person? I can't.
Now, if what you want, is to be a temporary distraction for him to get over his mid-life crisis, and for both of you to have some bed-time fun, then cheating with someones husband, may be your thing. If that's not your thing, there's plenty of other men around. And not all of them are cheating lying bastards.
2006-09-05 20:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be on your guard no matter how much he tells you that he loves you. Men sometimes have the tendency to "get tired" and "fall out of love" after marriage. He made a vow to love his wife forever, so there's something fishy going on if he's having an affair with you.
Just be careful. If he truly loves you, he would do better than to ruin his relationship and unconsciously branding you as a homewrecker.
2006-09-05 20:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two reasons to believe he's not well. RUN!!!!
You're dealing with a damaged man who hasn't a clue as to what love is. He thinks of love the same way a hungry person thinks of a grocery store. He's thinking about what ne needs, not what he has to offer. Love, at a minimum, is both. Don't be one of the items on the shelf--you deserve far better.
2006-09-05 20:12:06 · answer #5 · answered by Pepper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you CHOOSE to accept this there is a million dollar home I can sell you for $100 bucks.
A married man will tell you anything to get between your thighs. He is MARRIED! That means committed; whether he acknowledges that relationship or not.
When you choose a man like this one, you are choosing LESS than what you really need, want and deserve.
I say, RUN LIKE HELL....in the opposite direction. That is IF you respect yourself and the woman who is his wife.
2006-09-05 20:18:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anna C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm.. im sorry to tell u, yet ur friends are precise.. if he enjoyed u, he could be getting a divorce to be with u, and he continues to be married.. he tells u he loves u reason he's time-honored with of u love him... so because it rather is how he retains u in da palm of his palms, dont be a fool u deserve plenty extra suited than that.. u are not a factor-time lover... reason on the top of the nite and on holidays he's along with his spouse so u might desire to tell him its the two u or the spouse, reason u won't be able to bypass on like this.. ur friends are precise, even concept u dont care, love urself sufficient to appreciate what's precise for u, and him putting u 2d and telling u he loves ain't love.. reason u could be #a million in his heart and it will very plenty tutor in his movements with the help of having a divorce..
2016-11-25 00:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by yellowhair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably this is what he tells his wife if he's still married and will continue telling you until he get's tired of you....the truth hurts!
Married men will never leave their wives for a fling...he is still married to his wife because maybe they have kids together,he feels stable being with his wife and family and he doesn't want to leave his wife.
It's easier for him to tell you anything because with you he has no responsibility whatsoever and you give him what he wants,he tells you what you want to hear.
Put yourself in his wife's shoes..how would you feel if your husband cheats on you....Yeh,that's how you should feel too.
2006-09-05 20:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by kart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he cheats on his wife,what makes you think he won't cheat on you if you get together with him and he gets a divorce. History repeats itself. Any man who cheats on his wife will cheat on another. He should have resolved his marriage before saying he loves somebody else. He's not much of a man in my book.
2006-09-05 20:17:06 · answer #9 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's lying to you like he's lying to his wife. you are just something different to sleep with than his wife. you are his toy for now, and as soon as he gets tired of you, he'll find another toy and dump you. so get out now while you still have your dignity.
2006-09-05 20:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by mercedes1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋