The more i text and call the more he doesnt REPLY. When i pause he comes slowly to me.Im fearing, Do u think if i remain quiet for sometime he'll come back as before? its very hard not to text and phone him.Please help me with good advices.Thanks
2006-09-05 19:37:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why are you concerned about a relationship with someone you never trust?
‘Trust’ is very important in a relationship. If it isn’t there, then it means that the ‘honesty’ isn’t there, and the relationship is crap.
Has your boyfriend given you reasons to not trust him? Has he cheated on you, or lied to you?
I can only suggest to you that if your boyfriend can’t be trusted, then he shouldn’t be your boyfriend.
Don’t wait for him to text you… You get in touch with him and tell him that you have decided to call the relationship off. I don’t know that he will be upset about it. He probably already has someone to take your place.
You deserve to be in a relationship with someone you trust.
Go and find it !!!
2006-09-05 19:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question is why don't u trust him? Has he given u a good reason not to? The thing is, u need to stop pursuing him and bugging him. Maybe u should lay off of txting him for a while and in the meantime, do your own stuff. When he txts u then talk to him but otherwise stop bothering him so much.
He might be wanting space and u being all up his rear end is only driving him further away from u. So...lay off for a while and see what happens. Besides if he doesn't want to talk to u anymore, why even stay around waiting on him?
2006-09-06 03:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look you said you never trust him. If you never trust him and he feels it he will keep pulling away from you until you are both no longer together.
Relationships are built from many things and one big one is trust. If you don't have the others trust then your relationship will never work.
Stop with the text messages and phone calls to show your trust and see what happens. If you cant do that then you should move on.
Good luck
2006-09-06 02:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it could mean alotof things.. he busy..your too untrusting or dont trust yourself... or been hurt in the past what ever the porblem is talk to him about it.. do some soul searching .... be honest with yourself and him... find out why in yourself that you dont trust him is it beacuse he is not at your becon call or you are too needy ... or not ready for a realotionship .. .he could be goin thru some stuff as well.. or you might have a good reason that you are not trusting him
2006-09-06 02:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by rgibson15206 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only he knows why he is not calling you. I can understand how difficult it is to remain quiet but you need to know if he really wants to be with you. Let him miss you. If all fails go by the book " he's just not that into you " by Greg Behrendt. It really helped me out on several occasions.
2006-09-06 02:42:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have lived with my bf one day he drank some beer at his friend home and i wasn't trust him, I called and he angry!!! That night he back late and said me in the moring "Why didn't trust me i wan sorry!!! Don't cheak up on me!!! After that i have never checked him again 55
2006-09-06 04:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by nonglnalak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u love him..but u cant trust him ...u want him..but u cant stop thinking of da fact dat he's cheating on u...
dis is not how a relationship works...
if u love him...den trust him...ur only making him go away from u...by not trusting him...
he felt bad dats da reason he isent responding 2 u.. theres a limt 2 everything...& if he loves u...he wud not expect dis in return...
think bout it whether u can trust him or not...if u can...den dont ever doubt on him....but sure keep an eye on him...but if u cant trust him...den let go of him...
2006-09-06 02:55:37 · answer #7 · answered by moooooooovin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and a girl are in the same situation,but this girl thinks she controlls me so i dont txt for 5 days and bingo i get a txt whos in charge heh?thats what he may be thinking,either that or hes going behind your back with hundreads of differnt women,if not that hes just messing you about for somthing to do.
2006-09-06 02:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by stoke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call...ignore him...he'll come running then.
or else, he's cheating and your about to get he ax...either way, take it like a classy woman and act like a whiny woman....it just doens't serve us well when we do that....not in the long run.
2006-09-06 02:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when they do that it means that your just someone to keep on the side just in case if the girl he really wants to go out with don't want him.
you need to go on your with your life and find a guy who wants you to be with you as much as you want to be with him..
2006-09-06 02:45:55 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. Rockstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋