Why is extraversion seen as superior to introversion?

Question

Is it just because their are more extroverts? As a introvert, I am tired of people suggesting that I should be more extroverted. I'm intelligent, I have social skills, I'm working towards my life goals and I'm happy the way I am. To me, extroversion and introversion are different, but each have their strengths and weaknesses, and they compliment each other in our society.

What do you think? And which are you?

Answer 1

I think if you are happpy with yourself, just continue on your road. Do you have to conform to what other people want? Of course, not. To thy own self, be true - and it's still true.

I agree with you that there are pluses and minuses to both groups of people and variety is the spice of life - we can't all be extroverts or introverts - we have to be who we are and people should accept us that way.

I am an introvert and I don't plan on becoming an extrovert even if I could. I would like to be more comfortable with people, but the essential part of me is a deep thinker and needs time alone away from people.

To sum up, don't let people tire you out - do your own thing, go your own way, develop as you wish, and take good care of yourself. Good luck and all the best.

Answer 2

In moderation both are OK. In extremes both can be problematic.

An average person shows signs of both as the day progresses and their moods change.

If you could define one person equally introverted, as another is extroverted. The extrovert would likely be seen as better by many. But this is more to do with the introverted not sharing themselves as much, thus not being a good indicator of their value.

I consider myself more introspective than introverted. I can be loud when necessary, but since I loath most people, I'm completely happy with a few close Friends & my family. I'm comfortable spending time with people - without the need to talk constantly.

Perhaps Introverts are more apt to think before they speak, while extroverts are perhaps more spontaneous & in the moment, voicing their every thought.

Ultimately, neither show any sign of greater intelligence, though an extrovert is more likely to embarrass them selves by needlessly displaying a lack of intelligence, while an introvert may keep their ignorance to them selves.

Answer 3

I would say I'm introverted. However, I have extrovert tendencies, with those who I'm familiar with.

I see introversion as superior to extroversion. An introverted person is contemplative, and reserves judgment. Extroverts are usually quick to judge, and quick to assume.

Answer 4

I'm both. Or rather, can be. I guess it depends on the situation.

In answer to your question, could it be because extroverts have a tendency to put themselves out there, a trait which many people find admirable? An introvert may seem more shy and withdrawn, which may could be interpreted as weak and overly cautious.

Answer 5

I think that it depends on the job. Most jobs do require social interaction. As long as you can express yourself you should be fine. There are 5 children in my family. I am extroverted, my next sibling, my sister is both; my brother(middle child) is introverted; next child a boy extroverted and the youngest as girl is both, but more introverted. We all get along and have all done well. I think that it is good b/c I make my introverted brother go out and he makes me stay in. It keeps us in balance.

Answer 6

I'm extremely introverted. That said, I've been in jobs for a number of years that have forced me to become a lot more extroverted than I otherwise would've been....The reason why people want you to be extroverted is because they're merely thinking of themselves (it would make them feel more comfortable if you were that way). When someone is introverted, it tends to turn people off, because people don't like to think deeply (it makes them depressed to do so). Most people like others to "entertain" them, to make them feel good, so that they can forget about the crap in their lives for a short while....I hope this helps.

Answer 7

Introvert by race.

Extroversion ties directly to the concept of social trade and "networking". If I do something for you, you will do something for me, right? If I help you with your problem, you will help me with my problem, right? A person who is extremely introverted denies the social trade-off inherent in social trade and advancement of life in general and introverts tend to not do very well without some connection to an extrovert to facilitate an association to social exchanges.

To sum it up: If one is an extreme introvert, it is in one's best interest to closely associate with at least one extrovert in order to balance the trade deficit in one's life. That was actually fun :-)

Extrovert and extravert interchangeable via Word spellchecker.

Answer 8

there is simply nothing wrong being an introvert, myself being one of them, i feel that sometimes people think i am rude as i dont talk much but when i do speak i am gentle with words so they know who i am and respect me for what i am and let me remain in my own little world of dreams..... the only thing is you shud accept urself for being an introvert as we r the minority and there will be some unfavourable conditions for us but if ur are diplomatic and kind people will accept ur introversion

Answer 9

the world seems better "designed" for extroverts.

Like you, i see strengths and weaknesses. I'm introverted.
You might be interested in the Jungian distinction between these 2 personality factors.

Extroverts GAIN energy around other people.
Introverts LOSE energy around other people ( and need some alone time to get their energy back.)

Answer 10

Extroversion makes other people feel more comfortable around you, meaning you're friendly, meaning you're a "better person".

There's nothing wrong with being nice and having social skills, if people don't like you for who you are, **** em.