how would you feel if?

Question

you went on a weekend trip with your father to go fishing, during that trip (before the trip your fiance promised to text you) you didnt receive any messages from your fiance, and when you get back home the first thing you do is call her. all she sais is "i missed you, ill call you back".

5 hours later she still hasn't called you, so you call her back, and you talk for five minutes, and her mobile phone rings. you hear her say "hello" then in a cheary voice "hey!!" and the house phone gets cut off, and i cannot call her back for about 10-20 minutes.

when i get through she said to me "why did you hang up?" i said "i didn't, you hung up on me" then i asked her who called her on the mobile and she stammered, and said "um, someone who i called about a house" and then hung up on me and wouldnt answer any more of my calls

how would you feel???

Answer 1

I would feel bad...and that the relationship is over.

Answer 2

Kris- you left out that I was upset and just slept the whole weekend! (You can ask ANYBODY!)
I had to call you back, 'cause I just got up and needed to do something!
Excuse me?! I talked to you as soon as you called!
I missed you SOOO much!
I thought you were still on the land-line!
I did NOT stammer! if I did, I was wondering whether I should tell you about me looking for a house for us...
You also left out you SHOUTED AT ME for supposedly cheating on you just because I got another call, when I couldn't handle more s.hit in my life!
You KNOW I did NOT cheat on you!
You insecure LIAR!!

Answer 3

u are now down the ladder of her priority. ask her honestly what happen. she may have new hobbies, to caught with work, family etc. however if you found out she is seeing someone else directly or indirectly, u better take serious stock if u still want this relationship. some can't be salvage. be strong & move on if you have to. there a billions of human in the world, so u are not short of chioces. hope this is helpful, peace, man

Answer 4

ohk, not to be sinical but usually when you're mad....your story gets a little bit one sided and you make your judgement based on your point of view. My question to you is.....if you were in her shoes, would you tell the story the same way? If yes, you should be pissed off and probably need to tell her how you feel. If no, you need to make the story unbias and reevaluate how you feel about the situation.........

I'm the king of jumping to conclusions with facts not entirely true....... best advice I can give is...make sure your facts is 90% correct before making a true judgement on it!

Answer 5

sounds like you might want to sit her down and talk to her, exspecially if you two are getting married, better to let your feelings be known now than wait until after the wedding to find out there is more to her than you knew. It could be nothing...but then again it might be something.

Just remember this.......The secret to having a good marriage is to understand that marriage must be total, it must be permanent, and it must be equal. Honesty and comfort within each other.

Answer 6

I wouldn't call her again. If she wanted to talk to me she can pick up that phone just as easily as I could. And she'd be lucky if I had the time to talk to her.

Answer 7

sad...it happens to me so many times....
so,i let him call me and talk for a while and hung up the phone....
dont call her wait until she call u and do the same thing she did to u...let us see what happen....tell her what u feel...

Answer 8

dump her! somethings up and it doesn't sound good. it's red flags everywhere. i would definitely dump the person and move on to greener pasture. sorry!

Answer 9

Its time to get another girlfriend

Answer 10

i would really feel bad about that.
ask her what went wrong.....and talk it over with her.