I emigrated to Canada with my husband 6 months ago on the promise "Its a new start" for the 6 years he has lied to me about every area of his life. I Swear I believed every word!! He has been for Hypnotherapy but it has not worked and he continues to Lie to me. His family also want him back in the UK and are making things worse and he never supports me when they abuse me, and Never Confronts them over the phone and tells them to stop. On top of his Lies and Deciet I have Toxic In Laws Should I get Out Now?
2006-09-05 18:27:01 · 12 answers · asked by maria t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Been there done that myself.
If your relationship is not working then you need to satisfy yourself enough to make yourself work. If he is lying to you, he is eaither ashamed of himself or has issues himself that he needed to work out before the two of you did such things so serious.
Leave and go back to your parents or friends for atleast a little while. If they care enough they will help you unravel yourself. If he wants you back, he will follow you and he will attempt to work out his issues.
Most of the time it takes a swift kick in the !ss to make someone grow up, this might his boot calling.
I was married to a depressed liar myself, so I understand where you are coming from.....do not spend one more dime on him and concentrate on yourself. That person will never be happy with himself unless he changes himself and that may never happen with the security of mundanity he had found in you.
2006-09-05 19:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably. He sounds like a pathological liar. Those people begin to believe their own lies and can't stop. It's not a hypnotherapist he needs, it's a shrink. I'd get out if I were you. Sorry.
2006-09-06 01:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how long you have been married. You sure put a lot of negatives about your husband and nothing positive. Seems you already made your decision.
Good Luck
2006-09-06 01:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - make him leave!!!Change the locks. Get a lawyer. If you leave it could be construed as desertion. You go girl! You deserve much better!
2006-09-06 01:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by Da Bomb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
2006-09-06 01:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by karkov48 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR CALL....... we do not know the whole story nor do we know you ...... look into your heart, the answer is there... in fact , from your words I think you already know what you want and need to do........ you are looking for permission..... you have to give it to urself .......... God bless
2006-09-06 01:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him back to his parents. They did one hell of a bang up job on their boy.
2006-09-06 01:30:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u already kno the answer 2 that one
2006-09-06 01:41:36 · answer #8 · answered by jd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now before they suck you back into their dysfunctionality.
2006-09-06 01:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl just runnnnnnn and dont turn back , he is not going to change
2006-09-06 01:31:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋