would you have a relationship with a guy that was not into anal sex but was in love with you. you could kiss and touch, etc but if the guy was not into having his *** touched or ****** and was not into your butt would a relationship workout on the long term?
can a man be in love with another man and not into the fuvking?
2006-09-05 18:22:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If there was love and respect between the two then there is no reason to deny that love. That would be mighty selfish!
2006-09-06 03:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men CAN be in love this way if BOTH are okay with the type of love they give each other. Personally, I enjoy the sex too much. It'd be like asking a straight couple if they'd be okay with no vaginal sex. Some would I suppose. Most would not. Unless there were mitigating circumstance such as a disability.....but even then, it occurs....so it just depends on what BOTh people in the relationship are into.
2006-09-05 19:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many couples like that out there and they don't feel the need to make up a new term for the practice either. (big eye roll)
What someone does or does not do in bed doesn't make them any more or less "Gay" than anyone else .
How someone has sex with someone else isn't nearly as important as the fact that they do share the intimacy and bonding that is needed to maintain a long term relationship.
2006-09-05 23:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Although my present parnter (almost 15 years) does like to get ******, and I've learned to **** him. Not one of my three preceding partners (several years each) was very anal. We loved sex though, and there are lots of other methods of having it. If you love each other, you can make it work. That's the trick though -- you have to love him too -- do you?
Kind thoughts,
Reynolds
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2006-09-06 06:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would personally need to be with my partner sexually. Sex to my is a deep, emotional, spiritual experience I would want to share with the man I love. It's beautiful. But, I guess that depends on the couple. You should find out what he wants. Hope I helped.
2006-09-06 21:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by urbania05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
A relationship is not all about sex. Some gay couples I know have told me that they do not engage in anal intercourse. Not everyone is interested in it.
However, if one partner is very much into anal intercourse and the other is not, there is a disconnect that needs to be addressed.
2006-09-05 18:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by dougeebear 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The honest answer is NO, a big fat resounding No. Everyone tries to tell themselves that sex is not an integral part of a relationship but it most definetly is. If he is crap in bed you will eventually dump him and visa versa, or at the very least you will look elsewhere for sexual satisfaction while you maintain a sham of a relationship. So the answer is unless you can sexually satisfy each other completely the relationship will not last.
2006-09-05 21:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by God 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Absolutely!
I've been in a monogomous relationship for 16 years and we've never done that.
We're just not in to it.
Why do people automatically assume that ALL gay men have anal sex?
We don't.....trust me.
2006-09-06 02:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by Jake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it could work, not all gay men have anal sex..........the interests and likes are as varied as can be. there isn't a rule-book, as long as both partners are happy, more power to them!!!
2006-09-06 18:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course!! I'm sure there are lots of gay people who don't want to do anal!!
2006-09-06 07:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by Adam G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋