i use ta have friends and they dis me cuz i don't wanna do the things i use to do like run around walk the streets all night long and why can't they be happy for me cuz i moved on we went different directions it aint like i wanted to loose there friendships i went to alot of friends and now i have none.
2006-09-05 18:10:28 · 14 answers · asked by JERISUE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Then they were not true friends ... friends should be happy for your recent achievements and changes .. sometimes we just simply outgrow (even maturity wise) our old friends. Its time to make new ones especially those that will be around when you really need them.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-05 18:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, they may not be comfortable with the new you, but if that is the case then they were not really good friends in the first place. A true friend would have stayed by you no matter what you did, or how you changed your life. Just go out and try to meet some new friends, and know that you are better off not doing what you used to, and that you can be a better person for it in the long run..Good Luck to you
2006-09-05 18:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are more mature and are trying to get your act together. Don't worry about what they think. If they have a problem with it then they were never really friends in the first place.
I had the same problem when I quit doing drugs...the old crowd didnt understand, so I quit hanging around them.
You have to do what is right for YOU.
2006-09-05 18:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by opjames 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are confused and probably feel "rejected" themselves. I wouldn't be surprised if they don't feel somewhat jealous. They don't want to admit to you, or themselves, that you are moving up and they are being left behind. Especially because what they are being left behind in is a future less, pointless life.
Of course they are going to try to make you feel bad because THEY don't want to feel bad and they do.
Don't let their envy and fear drag you back into this lifestyle. You have a chance at a better life--take it!
2006-09-05 18:32:34 · answer #4 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on finding new friends. My best childhood friend and I parted ways because she went one way and I went another. I made new friends and stayed out of trouble. She went on to ruin her life. I think you are very strong and good to change your ways. You will always remember your old friends but, better times await you. Good luck sweetie.
2006-09-05 18:15:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes we make changes in our life that r good.and our freinds dont see it that way .it usally means some how they feel left out . reasure them that you will still be there for them , but to you different things in life mean more than late nights and walking the streets. and you will always have one freind that will never forsake you jesus!!!!
2006-09-05 18:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by sissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends diss you because they are jealous of you. You got out of your old lifestyle and i'f i'm guessing right, your doing something with your life. They are actually angry with themselves but they focus the anger on you because it's easier.
2006-09-05 18:15:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when ppl get into the type of life style you are talking about, not all have the strength to get out...... be proud and walk tall that you made the choice to..... do NOT let them bring you down or back into it..... be strong and have faith in urself..... they are knocking you because they have to many issues for me to get into here...... but, I will say with all honesty that I am proud of you !!!! God bless
2006-09-05 18:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they cant change there life so they try to bring you down to there level so hang strong i did it my mates did nt want to know me because im working on a farm with my boyfriend i gt no mates now its hard but i done it and so can you !!!!!!
2006-09-05 18:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by naes_17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have outgrown them. They really were not your true friends if they didn't stick by you. Make new friends who share your new interests. Good luck....
2006-09-05 18:14:49 · answer #10 · answered by teashy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋