I just recently started talking to my ex boyfriend again. Just as friends. I broke up with him 3 years ago for like no reason. Anyway, I asked him if he liked me, he said no and he wasnt sure why he doesnt like me, he just doesnt. He says he doesnt think i'm pretty, he knows it. Also, I am going on vacation to a place he hates. I told him that I know he doesnt like it there, but if he wanted to come along he is welcome. He said he would think about it. So, if he doesnt like me like he says. Why would he go some place with me if he doesnt like it there plus he doesnt like like me?? do you think maybe he likes me? HELP!!
2006-09-05 17:52:01 · 12 answers · asked by an14341991 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm not proud of this.. but I umm cheated on him one time.. right in front of him.. but he loved me.. and didnt dump me.. when i dumped him.. i hurt him really bad.. i made him cry... i am the only person who has ever made him cry.
2006-09-05 18:02:41 · update #1
we dated for 3 years.
2006-09-05 18:03:50 · update #2
yes...his words are exact opposites of his actions....give him time to tell you the truth, he may not like you but he loves you....
2006-09-05 17:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by chona a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but your 'ex' doesn't seem like a very nice guy. Maybe you're better off not worrying so much if he likes you and if he didn't, then why did he say he'd think about it... honestly, he really doesn't sound like a very considerate guy.
He sounds kind of rude if you want the truth, that or he's really trying to get you to chase after him. He probably feels like he's got you wanting him again and that he can wrap you around his finger. It's all up to you if you want to be with this guy- maybe you should start looking elsewhere. Were you guys together long? You've been split for 3 years so maybe you both are better off as 'friends'.
Good luck!! =)
2006-09-06 00:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by Kami J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he still like u and is just scared of being hurt again, or maybe he don't like u.him wanting to come with u may indicate that he still has feelings for u but i'm not sure.u will have to figure that out on ur own.
2006-09-06 00:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by jojo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE HASNT SAID HE WOULD GO YET!MAYBE HE IS JUST BEING NICE OR MAYBE HE SAID HE DIDNT LIKE YOU ANYMORE BECAUSE HE DOESNT WANT TO GET HURT AGAIN.MAYBE YOU HURT HIM YEARS AGO WHEN YOU BROKE UP WITH HIM FOR NO REASON! OR JUST MAYBE HE WANTS A FREE VACATION!
2006-09-06 01:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by lisababyg ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just trying to clear up his feelings for you but it has 3 years maybe he jsut wants to hang out and catch up with your life
2006-09-06 05:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by aggieprincess4u08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might just like you as a friend...which isn't a bad thing. If anything you can establish a friendship and build off that.
Hope this helps.
2006-09-06 00:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by Chistiaŋ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
My motto has always been never go back. An ex is an ex for a reason. No I don't think he likes you.
2006-09-06 01:00:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said he would think about it... it doesnt mean that he is going for sure... and if he does go... maybe its because he just wants to hang out with you.... as friends... dont sweat it...
2006-09-06 00:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by Brownie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he likes you, maybe he likes a free vacation even if its not his favorite place.
2006-09-06 00:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by Vicki D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't like you at all but if you keep on bugging why he doesn't then he might hate you! why offer him free vacation? you are wasting your time to this guy.
2006-09-06 00:58:30 · answer #10 · answered by lette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋