Lets say you were romantically dating someone for 3 months and she was amazing ! , but you were torn bcuz your were too busy for her and hated the hour commute to see her .
Then out of no where she says good bye . Would you miss her at all ? maybe a little ? be honest
2006-09-05 17:36:26 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
if u miss him that much, why dont u call and check up on him... he might just be waiting for ur call as well...
2006-09-05 17:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by beautysexychick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that EXACT problem in school, the girl I was seeing lived near downtown Pittsburgh while I lived just outside of the city.
I didn't have a car then but I always either took a taxi or a bus for both for at the very least 1 hour. I was there every weekend and every time in between that she asked,.......I was whipped.....
all the while talking of "forever", and "love", and blah, blah, blah.
for almost 2 years.
She still broke up with me,...Ha. Yes I moved on, no, it wasn't entirely easy, sometimes I think about her, and I'm still alittle bitter, cuz I really had no real closure. But if I hadn't gotten dumped, who knows if I would've even met the woman I married.
The moral......Women are evil!!!.........some women.....not all
women, some are amazing, but you might have to go through hell to find her.
2006-09-05 18:08:58 · answer #2 · answered by Tapout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hour commute? I'll tell you a story. I was living in VT and was going to move to NJ to start a new job. My friends took me out and we met other friends of theirs. I met a woman and we danced and I convinced her to come home with me. She was shy and was concerned what her friends would think of her. Well, I turned the charm on and we had a great weekend. I drove 6 hours each way every other weekend to be with her. After 3 months I asked her to marry. We married and I moved her to NJ.
After 3 years, I was not happy nor she.
We divorced. I have not heard or seen her since.
Sad? I won't do that again.
2006-09-05 19:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by andywho2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was really into her and she was amazing (I presume we're talking about you here)... I'd make time if I was too busy. And the hour commute wouldn't particularly bother me.
Love shouldn't come to know the boundaries that it sometimes does. Only a true cynic questions the value of trading time for love.
2006-09-06 03:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 3 months...no. But it depends on the reasons why she broke up. If they were just because of the commute time, then that is a little weak.
Hope thsi helps
2006-09-05 17:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by Chistiaŋ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime there is a lack of closure or forewarning of such relationship termination--whether it a friend, family or lover--there is a significant unavoidable "miss". Anyone who denies this is lying to you or to them self.
Long commute or not for person #1...a bond was established in those 3 months and if person #2 ended it abruptly...person #1 was jolted.
2006-09-05 17:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by LUCKY3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would miss her alot bcuz of the fact that i'm trying 2 make time. And probably it's work that keeps me busy. When in fact i could b cuddling with u.
2006-09-05 17:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by Smokey76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be a little hard at first , hey life waits for no-one. If she found someone she'd rather be with, why should I fret over it. I not married to her so she can do whatever she wants. The same goes for me. I'd always have good memories anyway .
2006-09-05 17:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by frith25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with the circumstances you listed, it wouldn't be too hard to move on. Maybe not easy, depending on how "romantic" is was, but it was only 3 months, sure I'd miss her, can't be invovled and not be friends.
2006-09-05 17:42:02 · answer #9 · answered by Stinger 22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea i would deffinetly miss her. The key to this is to have someone to talk to, another girl, have her to lean on and maybe look for a girl to satisfy your emotional needs momentarily. As bad as it sounds its always best to have a negative rebound time. It saves a lot of heartache.
2006-09-05 17:40:05 · answer #10 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy was dating somebody amazing... Commuting won't be an issue... he has probably moved on already..
2006-09-05 17:38:53 · answer #11 · answered by iluvafrica 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋