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Ok,so,I posted a question about getting this quys attention on my other screen name -read for info. 2day at school,I decided to give it a whirl. This other girl & I made this plan up-I borrowed a pencil from him in class, & then afterwards, I gave it back 2 him while opening up the door 2 the school storage room & shoved him in. I had him against a wall, unbuttoning his shirt & cupping him (he felt huge!) kissing him like crazy,but he wasn’t kissing back,& when I went for his zipper, he pushed me off of him. The door opened at that point with my friend & his girl,& I went up against him & said ‘I’m so sorry u had to find out this way’.the girl was shocked. The guy said her name really softly saying it wasn’t what it looked like. She gave him a really loving look, b4 she slapped me, & went over to cup him - he gasped & he grew so hard in her hands instantly - I hadn’t even turned him on!
2006-09-05 17:28:36 · 24 answers · asked by Sarah M 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
She told me that that was what I was missing out on, & I walked out with my friend,& she asked me 2 shut the door on my way out so they could have some time together! My friend told everyone what happened. And now everyone thinks it was hilarious what I tried to do. He won’t even look at me. What should I do now? And the worst part was, as we were leaving, she whispered to him how much she loved him and how she was so sorry he had to go through that, and he was holding her tight and telling her that it was ok now, because he was holding her in his arms, and kissed her hair before starting to make out with her like she was his breath or something. I watched for a couple moments before my friend dragged me out and slammed the door, and everyone in the hallway looked and my face was red from were she slapped me.
2006-09-05 17:28:48 · update #1
I even had someone take a photo of me once they learned what happened to put in the school yearbook as someone who was stupid enough to try break up Romeo and Juliet. None of the girls who were talking to me are talking to me now, because they said they told me so, and dont want to loose this couple as friends. I'm totally alone.
I know I shouldn't have done it, but please, just tell me how to go about this school year. I just transfered, and I'm a senior - and the laughing stock of the school in the 2nd week. How do I show my face? The couple aren't even saying bad things about me - just that they feel sorry for me. It's everyone else who is having a feild day with this!
2006-09-05 17:30:11 · update #2
First of all you got guts. But are you crazy? That was not the way to get his attention. I don't know who told you to do that but they were stupid for telling you and you should have never listened to them. High school couples do last by the way. I have been with my boyfriend since I was 14 years old (I am 20 now) and we are about to get married. You should have never tried that but since you did you better do some serious damage control. I don't know tell everyone it was a bet or something. But the only thing you really can do is wait it out something better will come along and everyone will kinda forget it happened. Most of all leave the guy alone because next time the girl might do more than slap you.
2006-09-05 17:39:15 · answer #1 · answered by imagine_mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt you will consider this, but if you put God in your life, and ask for forgiveness, it helps a lot.
Forgive yourself as well, and have the courage to apologize to them both in a sincere, honest way. If they don't accept it, at least you apologized.
After you do all of that, then try to seek counseling and stick with it. There has to be a reason that you did this, besides just wanting him. For you to just barge right into someone’s long time relationship and try to break them up, just to have even a one night stand, is a very mean thing to do.
It almost sounds like you’re holding in a lot of anger and may be even doing things to hurt or destroy YOUR OWN LIFE.
I don't think you really want to have a bad reputation, especially in the senior year of high school. It can travel by word of mouth, and really mess up the rest of your life. All it takes is a few gossip queens that live in your area - to pass it on after you graduate.
From this day forward, try to do and say only positive, GOOD things, on a continuous basis and maybe people will see the change and give you another chance.
Always remember: Actions speak louder than words. You can say all you want, but people remember what they see you doing. You still have a chance to make a better life for yourself, and stop thinking of how pretty or hot you are on the outside. The real beauty is within a person. If you visit or volunteer to work at a retirement or convalescent home, it may help you to realize how short life is, and what is really important.
I don’t think I am any better than you or anyone else. You asked for help, so I responded. We all have made mistakes and / or done bad things. It’s called a learning process.
I wasn’t such an angel when I was in my early teens, and I still regret it. I was terrible to my parents and siblings, although I did a complete turnabout. Now I try to be as nice and helpful to people as I can be. Maybe that’s why I try to help others even now – to make up for the times I wasn’t such a nice person.
Don’t wait too long to make these positive changes, and speaking of length, I apologize for the length of this answer. I hope I have been able to help you, even if it’s just a tiny bit. I'm sorry if it isn't what you wanted to hear.
2006-09-06 04:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by SweetPea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay so you are a writer? Why is the school storage room unlocked? That's a problem and makes me think this is a farce as the janitors come in after class is over and never leave closets unlocked, it's a hazard and a liability and who knows who might have been dumb enough to drink the windex.
Even if this real, you did a very stupid thing. What you did is sexual harassment and he has the ability to press charges if he wants. No to mention how did his chick find him? I believe your friend set you up, because once more you did a stupid thing. There is no way to hide from this and you always be known as something cruel. Good Luck, keep low, watch your back, and donate this story to a local porn story site.
2006-09-06 01:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get over it! You have no choice, but what the h*** were you thinking? I hope you have learned from this and never do this again! What kind of kids in whatever kind of school go around molesting each other like this? None of you have any self respect!
By the way, most of the answers to your previous question TOLD YOU to leave him alone! Only the 1st person told you to touch him! Why didn't you listen?
2006-09-06 01:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by *ღ♥۩ THEMIS ۩♥ღ* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you shouldn't have gone too far. I feel sorry for you, but all I can say is try to get your mind occupied on other things. Go to new activities. You shouldn't have tried to break them up. Try to make people think differently of you by trying to do something else...that's not crazy like what you just said here. Pretty soon, a lot of people will forget about it except for the people involved. Learn to control yourself.
2006-09-06 02:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by Kenneth S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve what you are getting, seriously. I think you are focussed way to much on getting some. Why not focus on your school work and get into a good college...maybe graduate early...If I caught you like that on my BF I would have done more than just slap you. Course now everyone knows how shallow you are, he isn't obviously...perhaps there is more to a relationship than looks, girly...
2006-09-06 01:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by EmmaGee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your stupid, why are you so hungry for someone elses man? If you ask me your lucky you only got a slap - Go to school and look like the fool you are
2006-09-06 01:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by cvegas229 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOunds to me like your a go getter type of person....Needless to say, you got yourself into this one this time and since your so tough Im sure you can rough this one out yourself too...No pain, no gain! Don't dwell on it..it'll pass..hey better yet laugh with them...Good_Luck! and be happy it could have been worst.
2006-09-06 02:05:54 · answer #8 · answered by nAiSa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you have the worse school year. You got what you deserve. Next time learn to have some self respect and restraint.
2006-09-06 09:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by Alucard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls aren't going to want to talk to or be friends with someone that is going to try and take their guy.
You've committed social suicide. You've officially ostracized yourself from that cliche.
You know that small group of people that sit by themselves and noone else talks to? That's your new group of friends.
2006-09-06 06:23:26 · answer #10 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋