Her side: She see's no harm talking to anyone, even guys, on the net. Even if it involves sexual subjects. And the lies are just to make sure there is not a argument, She does not start the conversations, just answers them.: point of argument. Guy IMs her off answers, starts talking sexual stuff, she informs him seeing someone, he asked her if she wanted a pic and he sends a Nude pic (he did not say it was nude when he asked her if she wanted one), and she still talks to him for another 30mins.
NOTE: she says it was ok becasue none of the questions was about "her" sex life.
His side: He thinks it was wrong for her to even talk to him, should have termanated the IM when he didn't stop after was told she was with someone, and should not have ok'd a pic, or talked to him for 30 min afterwords.
who was wrong ? Him or her?
2006-09-05 16:58:57 · 6 answers · asked by Common Sense 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
people don't realize that when they have friends of the same sex it could pose a problem because one may feel like they are not doing 100% to keep one satisfied.
I say online flirtations are emotional cheaters. Seeing a nude mans pic (other than your own) and then talking to him an additional 30 minutes is even more a no-no.
Sounds like she needs to deal with her emotions and not create an emotional upset in the one she is supposed to love the most!
Tell her I said GROW UP.
2006-09-05 17:03:20 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me and my bf was doing that we would have serious issues. Talking about sex on line with nude pictures involved, not acceptable unless OK-ed by partner before hand. She did OK by telling that she wasn't available but should have stopped talking after the nude picture.
2006-09-06 00:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by emaleiluv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She feels he is wrong because there was no sexual intent on her part
He feels she is wrong because she continued a conversation with someone who obviously had a sexual intent.
Since there is no respect on either part, they are both wrong.
My guess is that he is insecure, and she spends more time giving compliments than receiving them. So she looked for positive attention elsewhere. Thats just a hunch though.
2006-09-06 00:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she hurt your feelings, she was wrong.........I don't understand why women get online and meet these perverts and get some kind of enjoyment out of it.........Get rid of her or tell her to stop or whatever........You deserve better than that............Take care.........
2006-09-06 00:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His side is correct.. Temptation is there.. why bring it on..and invite it over..
2006-09-06 00:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by DearAbby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her...if it was harmless...then it wouldn't be hurting him. She wouldn't like it if the situation were reversed.
2006-09-06 00:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by Lautrec 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋